Making Memories Week 2 - Lasting Memories

Making Memories Wk. 2 –  

Lasting Memories 

 

ICE BREAKER:  What traditions do you carry on from past generations? What traditions did you jettison as soon as you had a chance? 

 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?   

 

Pastor Brian makes the distinction between our reputation and our legacy. Our reputation is now focused and is our public persona. Legacy is the effect of our lives beyond us. A reputation can be made in a moment. A legacy is built over time.  

 2. Who is the beneficiary of a reputation? Who is the beneficiary of a legacy? 

 

3. What kind of legacy should Christians seek to leave? (Psalm 78:4, 2 Timothy 2:2, 2 Peter 1:12-15) 

 

Psalm 78:4 (NIV)  We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done. 

2 Timothy 2:1–2 (NIV) You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. 2 And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others. 

2 Peter 1:12–15 (NIV) So I will always remind you of these things, even though you know them and are firmly established in the truth you now have. 13 I think it is right to refresh your memory as long as I live in the tent of this body, 14 because I know that I will soon put it aside, as our Lord Jesus Christ has made clear to me. 15 And I will make every effort to see that after my departure you will always be able to remember these things. 

2 Timothy 4:6–8 (NIV) For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time for my departure is near. 7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearin

4. What kind of legacy does Paul leave? 

 

5. What does Paul say he has done to leave that legacy? 

 

3 Areas of Faithfulness that Lead to a Lasting Legacy 

  • Being Faithful to Encounter God 
  • Being Faithful to Grow in Community 
  • Being Faithful to Live Our Calling 

 

 2 Timothy 3:14–17  But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 15 and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. 

6. How does 2 Timothy 3:14-17 address the 3 Areas of Faithfulness? 

 

 

7. What do you think it means to Encounter God faithfully in our lives? 

 

8. What are ways we can Encounter God faithfully in our lives? How can doing so help to build a lasting legacy? 

 

9. What do you think it means to Grow in Community faithfully in our lives? 

 

10. What are ways we can Grow in Community faithfully in our lives? How can doing so help to build a lasting legacy? 

 

11. What do you think it means to Live Our Calling faithfully in our lives? 

 

12. What are ways we can Live Our Calling faithfully in our lives? How can doing so help to build a lasting legacy?  

 

13. What area of faithfulness would you like to grow in? What steps can you take to see growth and build on your legacy and the legacy of Christ? 

 

14. How have you grown or what new steps have you taken since the beginning of the Circle Group semester that started in September? 

 

 

We know that the spiritual legacy we leave will have eternal ramifications. 

"The greatest legacy one can pass on to one's children and grandchildren is not money or other material things accumulated in one's life, but rather a legacy of character and faith." - Billy Graham 

by Candace Hampton

Memories In The Making

Memories in the Making- 

Redemption & Healing 

 

ICE BREAKER:  What makes a memory wonderful?  Share a wonderful memory you are comfortable sharing! 

 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?  

 

The series is about being intentional about the things that will be remembered -  a legacy! 

2. What kinds of things should we be intentional about remembering, for ourselves, and for our children? (Luke 15:21-24) 

 

(From the Parable of the Prodigal Son) Luke 15:21–24 (NIV) 21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’  22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate. 

3. Why does intentionally remembering the good things and godly things, rather than remembering everything, improve our lives? (1 John 3:19-21) 

 

 

1 John 3:19–21 (NIV) 19This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence: 20 If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. 21 Dear friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God  

One of the early steps in leaving a legacy is letting God redeem every area of our lives. 

4. What does “Redemption or Redeeming” mean to you?   

 

5. How do we let God redeem every area of our lives? (Matthew 6:19-21,33) 

 

Matthew 6:19-21 19 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. 

 Matthew 6:33 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.  

 

Note: King David committed adultery with Bathsheba.  To keep her husband from finding out about the adultery, King David had him killed, in battle, by the hand of the enemy. David later repented and experienced the loss of their child because of his sin. Yet God would later redeem David’s sin with their son Solomon becoming king. (1 Chronicles 22:6-10) 

1 Chronicles 22:6–10 (NIV) 6 Then he called for his son Solomon and charged him to build a house for the LORD, the God of Israel. 7 David said to Solomon: “My son, I had it in my heart to build a house for the Name of the LORD my God. 8 But this word of the LORD came to me: ‘You have shed much blood and have fought many wars. You are not to build a house for my Name, because you have shed much blood on the earth in my sight. 9 But you will have a son who will be a man of peace and rest, and I will give him rest from all his enemies on every side. His name will be Solomon, and I will grant Israel peace and quiet during his reign. 10 He is the one who will build a house for my Name. He will be my son, and I will be his father. And I will establish the throne of his kingdom over Israel forever.’ 

 

6. What does it reveal about God’s character that He would change/redeem the results of David’s sin by allowing Solomon to become king? How does this help us to have trust that God can redeem our mistakes for his glory? (Psalm 103:10-13) 

 

Psalm 103:10–13 (NIV) 10 he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. 11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; 12 as far as the east is from the west,  so far has he removed our transgressions from us. 13 As a father has compassion on his children so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; 

7. What does Psalm 51:1 reveal about David’s relationship with God? (Psalm 51:1-6) 

 

Psalm 51:1-6 Have mercy on me, O God,   according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion  blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned  and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict  and justified when you judge. 5 Surely I was sinful at birth, 
sinful from the time my mother conceived me. 6 Yet you desired faithfulness even in the womb;  you taught me wisdom in that secret place. 

8. How does confession of our sin and our relationship with God affect our openness for God to “Redeem Our Regrets”? 

 

 

 

Pastor Brian listed some of the accomplishments of Solomon: 

    • Solomon constructs the temple in Jerusalem. 
    • Israel has unprecedented economic success and peace with their enemies under Solomon. 
    • David and Solomon are in the line that Jesus, the Savior of the world is born.  

Pastor Brian presented three truths about God’s redemption. 

-Redemption is something God wants to do. 

Only He can do the redeeming, AND He wants too. 

-Redemption of Our Story Takes Many Forms. 

Redemption can cause us to seek God, either for the first time, or to grow in our walk. 

Redemption can cause us to reschedule or redirect, or to bless others.  (2 Corinthians 1:3-4) 

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 

 -Redemption of our Story requires we take the Long View 

Sometimes redemption is eternal (Romans 8:28) 

Romans 8:28 28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 

9. What do you think that Pastor Brian meant that sometimes our redemption is eternal? 

 

10. How does God use pain and difficulty in our lives?  (James 1:2-4) 

 

James 1:2-4 2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 

11. Can you think of ways that God has redeemed hurt and pain in your life?  Is there anything you would be comfortable sharing with your circle? 

 

12. How can we put in the past what God has already redeemed you from? 

 

13. What can we do to reduce the pain and hurt from difficult memories and failures in our lives?  (Philippians 4:8-9) 

Philippians 4:8-9 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. 
 

God wants to take your story of regret and turn it into a story of redemption too.- Pastor Brian 

by Candace Hampton

The Resurrection and The Life

THE RESURRECTION AND THE LIFE

John 11 & John 12:1-11

ICEBREAKER:  Did you ever have a hero when you were a child?  How did you feel when you were around them?

 

  1. What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?

 

John 11:1-6  1 Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha.2 (This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.)3 So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”4 When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.”5 Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.6 So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days,

  1. How close was Jesus to this family? How much did they mean to Him?(v.3)

 

  1. Jesus stayed for 2 more days. Why do you think He delayed for 2 days? (v.6)

 

John 11:17-27 17 On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days.18 Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem,19 and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother.20 When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed at home.21 “Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died.22 But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”23 Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”24 Martha answered, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die,26 and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?”27 “Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, who is to come into the world.”

  1. What limitations does it appear that Martha has in her understanding of who Jesus is or what He can do? (v.21)

 

  1. What limitations might you have of what Jesus can do in your life? Why?

 

  1. How could my concerns of His abilities be evidenced in my life?

 

  1. How does Jesus respond to Martha’s concerns? (v.25)  How do you think Jesus will respond to your concerns? (John 20:24-28)

 

John 20:24-28  24 Now Thomas (also known as Didymus ), one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came.25 So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!” But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”26 A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!”27 Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.”28 Thomas said to him, “My Lord and my God!”

 

John 11:39-44  39 “Take away the stone,” he said. “But, Lord,” said Martha, the sister of the dead man, “by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days.”40 Then Jesus said, “Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?”41 So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me.42 I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.”43 When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” the dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face. Jesus said to them, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”

  1. Is the glory of God a thing, an event or a person?  (v.40)  Can we become a part of the glory of God?  If so, how?  (Colossians 1:26,27)

 

Colossians 1:26,27 26 the mystery that has been kept hidden for ages and generations, but is now disclosed to the Lord’s people.27 To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.

 

John 12:1-3  1 Six days before the Passover, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. 2 Here a dinner was given in Jesus’ honor. Martha served, while Lazarus was among those reclining at the table with him. 3 Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.

The amount of pure nard used by Mary was equal to a person’s wage for an entire year.  It was possibly the family’s treasure.

  1. What does the action of Mary say about how she viewed Jesus? Why would a person give so much to Jesus? (Matthew 22:36, 37)

 

Matthew 22:36,37 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest  commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’

      10. What treasure would you consider giving to Jesus? Would Jesus consider that your greatest treasure?

 

John 12:4-7  4 But one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, who was later to betray him, objected, 5 “Why wasn’t this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages. ”6 He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. 7 “Leave her alone,” Jesus replied. “It was intended that she should save this perfume for the day of my burial.

  1. What was keeping Judas from believing in Jesus? How can we prevent ourselves from having the same problem?  (Colossians 3:1-4)

 

Colossians 3:1-4 1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.

  1. Why didn’t Judas seek to accept the forgiveness Jesus could offer? (Mark 2:5-11; Matthew 27:3-5)

 

Mark 2:5-11 5 When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, “Son, your sins are forgiven.”6 Now some teachers of the law were sitting there, thinking to themselves,7 “Why does this fellow talk like that? He’s blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?”8 Immediately Jesus knew in his spirit that this was what they were thinking in their hearts, and he said to them, “Why are you thinking these things?9 Which is easier: to say to this paralyzed man, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Get up, take your mat and walk’?10 But I want you to know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins.” So he said to the man,11 “I tell you, get up, take your mat and go home.”12 He got up, took his mat and walked out in full view of them all. This amazed everyone and they praised God, saying, “We have never seen anything like this!”

 

 

 

Matthew 27:3-5 3 When Judas, who had betrayed him, saw that Jesus was condemned, he was seized with remorse and returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and the elders.4 “I have sinned,” he said, “for I have betrayed innocent blood.” “What is that to us?” they replied. “That’s your responsibility.”5 So Judas threw the money into the temple and left. Then he went away and hanged himself.

  1. How does a selfish person’s life almost always end, and why? Why can’t selfishness ever be satisfied?

 

  1. What is the thing that you are most afraid of that could be getting in your way of growing closer to Jesus?

 

  1. What steps can a Christian take to remove such barriers and not be like Judas who walked with Jesus and still could not come to faith in Jesus as God? (1 Peter 2:2; Acts 17:11)

 

1 Peter 2:2 2 Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation,

 

Acts 17:11 11 Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.

A life lived in worship is poured out for God and others whereas a life lived for self is spilled out in destruction.

 

by Candace Hampton

Joy Ride - 4

Joy Ride – Week 4 

Philippians 4 

Ice Breaker:  What are your top three things that bring you joy? 

 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message? 

 

Philippians 4:  Read aloud through Philippians 4  

How will we live? – our choices form our character over time 

 2. How have you seen your choices in attitude or focus affect your life or circumstances? 

 

Philippians 4:1 - Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends! 

3. What is Paul wanting them to do as they “stand firm in the Lord in this way?” (Philippians 3:13b)   

 

Philippians 3:13b – but one thing I do:  Forgetting what is behind and stressing toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.  

Philippians 4:2-3 - I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. 3 Yes, and I ask you, my true companion, help these women since they have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my co-workers, whose names are in the book of life. 

4. What does it mean to be of the “same mind in the Lord?”  How does knowing God’s word help maintain unity among believers?  (Romans 15:4-6) 

 

Romans 15:4-6 - For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope. 5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, 6 so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. 

5. What can we do to be of the “same mind in the Lord” at Sun Grove?

 

6. How does seeking unity differ when discussing doctrinal (from God) issues versus preferential (man) issues?  Remember Pastor Brian last week saying “Selflessness is not thinking less of oneself but thinking of oneself less. (Ephesians 4:13-15, James 1:27) 

 

Ephesians 4:13-15: until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. 

James 1:27 - Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.  

From the sermon - Paul is giving us a plan for our spiritual growth and a plan for unity.  Paul invites us to make formational choices in the midst of challenging circumstances. 

Choice #1 - Rejoicing in the Lord always 

Philippians 4:4 - Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 

7.  Why does Paul think we can rejoice in the Lord even when (earthly) circumstances can be unbearable?  (John 16:22; James 1:2-4)   

 

John 16:22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy. 

James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.   

8.  What practices can we employ so that we can rejoice in the Lord always? (Colossians 3:2-4)

 

Colossians 3:2-4 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is your[a] life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. 

  

Choice #2 - Choosing to be gentle with everyone  

Philippians 4:5  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.  

9. How could being gentle with everyone benefit both them and those observing you? ( I Tim. 4:12) 

 

1 Timothy 4:12 Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity. 

10. How could being gentle with everyone benefit your walk with Christ? (Matthew 7:1,2) 

 

Matthew 7:1-2 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 

 

Choice #3 – Giving your anxiety to God through prayer 

Philippians 4:6-7  Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 

From the sermon:  Choosing prayer when we are anxious or worried can truly change how we process worry and anxiety. 

11. Why do we suffer from anxiety and worry? (Matthew 5:25,26) 

 

Matthew 6:25-26 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?   

12. What could we do to relieve ourselves of this burden? 

 

13. What is our reward for giving our burdens to God?  Why is it worth the effort? (vs. 7) 

 

Choice #4 – Setting our minds on praiseworthy things  

Philippians 4:8-9  Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. 

14. Why is it important to spend our time thinking about these things? (Romans 8:5,6) 

 

Romans 8:5-6 Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. 6 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace.   

15. Do we sometimes rush to judge others without knowing the whole story?  Share an example, if comfortable. 

 

16. How can having the God of Peace with us help us in our everyday relationships? 

 

Challenge – How could your “choices” improve your relationship with God and increase your joy?  What choices could you make this week to increase your dependency on God?

by Candace Hampton

Joy Ride -3

JOY RIDE -3 

Philippians 2:19-4:1  

ICE BREAKER: Who in your life is the greatest example of service to others and why?  

    

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?       

 

“When we decide to follow Christ, we adopt the mindset of Jesus and learn to think, act and relate to others the way Jesus thinks and acts and relates”- Pastor Brian.  

Pastor Brian gave three examples of Christ like service to others. 

  

Example #1: Timothy 

Philippians 2:19-24 I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you soon, that I also may be cheered when I receive news about you. 20 I have no one else like him, who will show genuine concern for your welfare. 21 For everyone looks out for their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ. 22 But you know that Timothy has proved himself, because as a son with his father he has served with me in the work of the gospel. 23 I hope, therefore, to send him as soon as I see how things go with me. 24 And I am confident in the Lord that I myself will come soon. 

2. Why was Paul hoping to send Timothy to the Philippians? (v19). What does this indicate about the character of Paul and his feelings about the people at Philippi? 

 

3. How is Timothy described to the Philippians? (v20). What would having a genuine concern for the welfare of others look like in our lives?  

 

4. Paul says: “Everyone looks out for his own interests, not the interests of Jesus Christ”- Why is it that people tend to look out for their own interests?  How should we look out for the interests of Jesus and others? 

 

5. What made the difference in Timothy? (v22). How do you think service changes us to care more about others? 

 

Example #2: Epaphroditus  

25 But I think it is necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, co-worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger, whom you sent to take care of my needs.  26 For he longs for all of you and is distressed because you heard he was ill.27 Indeed he was ill, and almost died. But God had mercy on him, and not on him only but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow. 28 Therefore I am all the more eager to send him, so that when you see him again you may be glad and I may have less anxiety. 29 So then, welcome him in the Lord with great joy, and honor people like him, 30 because he almost died for the work of Christ. He risked his life to make up for the help you yourselves could not give me. 

6. Who was Epaphroditus, to the Philippians? (v25) Why were they concerned about him? (v26) 

 

7. How did Paul say that people like Epaphroditus should be treated? (v29). Do you know people like Epaphroditus?  What can we do for them now? 

 

“I think Paul wants us to see in Epaphroditus’ example, take risks for the mission. However, there are people around the globe who risk their lives for the work of Christ every day.   There are brothers and sisters who could potentially lose their lives, be put in prison for following Jesus.”  - Pastor Brian. 

 

8. What risks are you taking for the mission?  (Pastor Brian suggests: risking comfort and engaging neighbors more, risk our security and be more generous, surrendering control and praying dangerous prayers.) 

 

Example #3: Paul 

No Confidence in the Flesh 

Philippians 3:1-9  Further, my brothers and sisters, rejoice in the Lord! It is no trouble for me to write the same things to you again, and it is a safeguard for you. 2 Watch out for those dogs, those evildoers, those mutilators of the flesh. 3 For it is we who are the circumcision, we who serve God by his Spirit, who boast in Christ Jesus, and who put no confidence in the flesh— 4 though I myself have reasons for such confidence. If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more:5 circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; 6 as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless.7 But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 8 What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ 9 and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in[a] Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith.  

9. Who is Paul calling “dogs, evil workers, etc..”?  What is the difference between Paul and the group he calls “dogs, those evil doers, those mutilators of the flesh”? (v2-3) 

 

10. Have someone in your group summarize Paul’s testimony. (Acts 8:1-3, 9:1-30) What does Paul say about his righteousness? (v7-9 ). Where are we to find our righteousness? (v9). 

  

11. How do we sometimes use righteousness as a measure of our spirituality and the spirituality of others? What is wrong with that picture?     

 

12.  What would be the result in a Christian’s life when their faith in Jesus is the only focus?  (Philippians 2:7-9; Matthew 22:37-39; John 13:34-35) 

 

Matthew 22:37–39  Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’  38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 

John 13:34-35  “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” 

Philippians 3:10-14 I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, 11 and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead. 12 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do:  Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. 

 13. What do you think it means for Paul to say that he wants to “Know Christ, and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings becoming like Him in death?  (v 10). How could we could we apply this kind of thinking in our lives? (Romans 12:1-2) 

 

Romans 12:1–2 (NIV) Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.  

 

   

Example #4: Jesus 

 “Ultimately, the examples of Timothy, Epaphroditus, and Paul are so powerful because they are anchored in the story of Jesus”- Pastor Brian 

 14. How do the examples of Timothy, Epaphroditus, and Paul follow the example of Jesus expressed in Philippians 2:3-8 (Last week)? 

    • Timothy (Philippians 2:3-4) 

Philippians 2:3–4 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. 

 

    • Epaphroditus (Philippians 2:8) 

Philippians 2:8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross! 

 

    • Paul (Philippians 2:6-7) 

Philippians 2:6–7 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 

 

15. How does the example of Jesus show its power in your life?  What can all of us do to improve the way we love and serve others? 

 

 

by Candace Hampton

Joy Ride- 2

Joy Ride - 2 

Philippians Chapter 2:1-18 

Ice Breaker: What is the most selfless act that you have witnessed or were a part of? 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?     

 

Philippians 2:1–4 (NIV) Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  

2. How can the Philippians make Paul’s joy complete and from what should they draw their motivation? (1 John 4:19) 

 

1 John 4:19 (NIV) We love because he first loved us. 

3. How does Paul define or describe humility? How are humility and unity connected?  (Philippians 2:3-4, Ephesians 4:2-3) 

 

Ephesians 4:2–3 (NIV) Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. 

 

“True Humility Is Not Thinking Less of Yourself, It's Thinking of Yourself, Less.” ­  

Philippians 2:5–11 (NIV) In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: 6 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross! 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. 

4. What was the mindset of Christ Jesus that should inform our relationship with one another? 

 

5. What does this poem say about the deity and humanity of Christ? (John 1:1,14, Hebrews 2:14-18)  

 

John 1:1,14 (NIV) In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God….14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. 

Hebrews 2:14–18 (NIV) Since the children have flesh and blood, he too shared in their humanity so that by his death he might break the power of him who holds the power of death—that is, the devil—15 and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death. 16 For surely it is not angels he helps, but Abraham’s descendants. 17 For this reason he had to be made like them, fully human in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. 18 Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted. 

6. How did Jesus humble himself? (Philippians 2:6-8, Matthew 26:39, Hebrews 12:2b, John 13:12-15) 

 

Matthew 26:39 (NIV) Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.” 

Hebrews 12:2b (NIV) 2 …For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 

John 13:12–15 (NIV) When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. 13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 

7. What is the result of Christ’s willingness to humble himself for the sake of others (us)? (Philippians 2:9-11)  

 

8. What does it mean to have the same mindset as Jesus? (Philippians 2:5) Practically, what would that kind of humility look like in our lives? (Philippians 2:3-4) 

 

Philippians 2:12–18 (NIV)  12 Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, 13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.  14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.”  Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky 16 as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain. 17 But even if I am being poured out like a drink offering on the sacrifice and service coming from your faith, I am glad and rejoice with all of you. 18 So you too should be glad and rejoice with me. 

9. “Working out your salvation” (v12) is making yourself available for God to work in you to will and act. (Philippians 3:12-13) What will be the result of the Philippians' humility and obedience and by extension, our obedience? (12-13, 15, 18)  

 

10. For what reason would Paul rejoice and why would the Philippians be glad and rejoice with Paul? (Matthew 5:14-16, Philippians 2:15) 

 

Matthew 5:14–16 (NIV)  “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. 

11.  What are ways you can use this kind of humility to “value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others” so that “you will shine among them like stars in the sky 16 as you hold firmly to the word of life.”? 

 

When a community of people focuses on others, rather than themselves, it will show our generation a better way.  We will “shine among them like stars” and our spotlight will shine on the one whose name is above all names: Jesus. – Pastor Brian 

 

by Candace Hampton

Joy Ride - 1

JOY RIDE – 1 

Philippians Chapter One 

Ice Breaker: Who in your past brings you joy when you remember them and why? 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?     

 

Background on Philippians 

“The Philippian colonists were proud of being Romans and would do their best to order their civic life so that it matched the way things were done in Rome. The most recent innovation down that line was, of course, the establishment of the imperial cult: Caesar, the emperor, was to be worshipped as savior and Lord.” -NT Wright    

This created the challenge of preaching Christ as King because it created a situation where people had to make a choice as to whom they would give their allegiance to:  Caesar or Jesus.  While conversions were made, those choosing Caesar were angered and beat Paul and his co-worker Silas and threw them into jail after one of their miracles. (Acts 16). Now, years later and in prison in Rome, Paul writes this letter to encourage and strengthen the Christians at Philippi.  

 

“’Joy’ is a soulish quality that allows us to delight in God regardless of the circumstances” - Pastor Brian 

 

KEY ONE TO JOY – SERVING  

Philippians 1:1–5 (NIV) Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, ’To all God’s holy people in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and deacons:  2 Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 3 I thank my God every time I remember you. 4 In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 

2.  Paul identifies himself as a servant of Jesus Christ.  Why do you think he would do this? (Philippians 1:1) What does this indicate about Paul’s relationship with Jesus? 

 

3. How does seeing himself as a servant of Jesus affect how he chooses to remember the Christians at Philippi? And why? (Philippians 1: 3-5) 

 

4 How does being a servant of Christ allow Paul to live in joy for the Christians at Philippi instead of holding on to the hurts he had previously suffered there?  What hurts could you leave behind by living in the joy of serving Jesus? 

 

KEY TWO TO JOY – TRUST GOD TO FINISH THE WORK  

Philippians 1:6-11 (NIV) being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.  7 It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart and, whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me. 8 God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.  9 And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10 so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.  

5.  Can you name a project or two that you started but never finished?  Have you ever chosen to not start a project because you thought you could not finish it? 

 

6. Has the fear of failure ever kept you from trying to serve Christ? What gave Paul the confidence that God would complete the work He started? (Romans 8:28) 

 

Romans 8:28 (NIV)  And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 

 7. When has God worked with you in your life to bring you joy in difficult circumstances? 

 

KEY THREE TO JOY – SEEING GOD’S POINT OF VIEW   

Philippians 1:12–26 (NIV)  Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that what has happened to me has actually served to advance the gospel. 13 As a result, it has become clear throughout the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ. 14 And because of my chains, most of the brothers and sisters have become confident in the Lord and dare all the more to proclaim the gospel without fear.  15 It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. 16 The latter do so out of love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. 17 The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains. 18 But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.  Yes, and I will continue to rejoice, 19 for I know that through your prayers and God’s provision of the Spirit of Jesus Christ what has happened to me will turn out for my deliverance.  20 I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. 21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 22 If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! 23 I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far; 24 but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body. 25 Convinced of this, I know that I will remain, and I will continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith, 26 so that through my being with you again your boasting in Christ Jesus will abound on account of me. 

8. How did Paul view his circumstances even though he was in prison and could die? What result did he see as the best outcome? 

 

9. How could you view your circumstance from God’s perspective? How could He redeem your circumstances? 

10.  Paul said “For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.” What would a God empowered life look like for you?  (Philippians 1:21, 2 Timothy 1:7) 

 

2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV) For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. 

 

KEY FOUR TO JOY – MAINTAINING COMPLETE DEVOTION   

Philippians 1:27–30 (NIV) Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel 28 without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God. 29 For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him, 30 since you are going through the same struggle you saw I had, and now hear that I still have. 

11. What does it mean to you to “conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ”? 

 

12. How does suffering become joy when one is focused on Jesus and the work that God is doing within us? 

 

James 1:2–4 (NIV)  Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 

Pastor Brian stated: Joy is only possible within a committed relationship with Jesus! 

 

by Candace Hampton

Here 2 There- Part 4- Road to Fulfillment

Here to There 

Part 4 - Road to Fulfillment 

 

Ice Breaker:  What was your greatest achievement as a High Schooler?  Why did you think so? 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message?   

 

Everyone faces Failure 

2. How does failing at something make you feel?  Why can failure elicit such strong feelings in us?  (Genesis 3:7-9) 

 

Genesis 3:7-9  Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. 8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?  

What failure is in your story? 

In the sermon, Brian discussed two ways that we “fail.”   

  • When we do something wrong - sin.   
  • When we fail to do something - not accomplish a goal.

3. What are the differences between the two types of failures listed above? How can each type of “failure” cause separation between us and God? 

 

4. How can we avoid defining ourselves and others by failures? 

 

Pastor Brian used two of the twelve disciples as examples of failing:  

  •   Judas betrays Jesus (Luke 22:1-6)

Luke 22:1–6 Now the Festival of Unleavened Bread, called the Passover, was approaching, 2 and the chief priests and the teachers of the law were looking for some way to get rid of Jesus, for they were afraid of the people. 3 Then Satan entered Judas, called Iscariot, one of the Twelve. 4 And Judas went to the chief priests and the officers of the temple guard and discussed with them how he might betray Jesus. 5 They were delighted and agreed to give him money. 6 He consented, and watched for an opportunity to hand Jesus over to them when no crowd was present. 

  • Peter betrays Jesus (Luke 22:54-62) 

 Luke 22:54–62  Then seizing him, they led him away and took him into the house of the high priest. Peter followed at a distance. 55 And when some there had kindled a fire in the middle of the courtyard and had sat down together, Peter sat down with them. 56 A servant girl saw him seated there in the firelight. She looked closely at him and said, “This man was with him.”57 But he denied it. “Woman, I don’t know him,” he said. 58 A little later someone else saw him and said, “You also are one of them.”  “Man, I am not!” Peter replied.  59 About an hour later another asserted, “Certainly this fellow was with him, for he is a Galilean.”  60 Peter replied, “Man, I don’t know what you’re talking about!” Just as he was speaking, the rooster crowed. 61 The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: “Before the rooster crows today, you will disown me three times.” 62 And he went outside and wept bitterly.  

5. In these examples, which kind of “failure” did Judas and Peter commit? 

 

6. How are Peter and Judas’ transgressions different?  Similar? 

 

Responding to Failure  

Pastor Brian provided three ways that we can respond to our “failures.”  Define each of the following: 

  • Ignore it 
  • Be defined by it 
  • Receive God’s Grace for it

7. How did Judas and Peter respond to their own failures? (Matthew 27:1-5, John 21:4-19)  What was the important difference between the two responses? 

  •  Judas  

 Matthew 27:1–5 Early in the morning, all the chief priests and the elders of the people made their plans how to have Jesus executed. 2 So they bound him, led him away and handed him over to Pilate the governor.  3 When Judas, who had betrayed him, saw that Jesus was condemned, he was seized with remorse and returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and the elders. 4 “I have sinned,” he said, “for I have betrayed innocent blood.”  “What is that to us?” they replied. “That’s your responsibility.”  5 So Judas threw the money into the temple and left. Then he went away and hanged himself. 

  •   Peter  

John 21:4-19 Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus.  5 He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”  “No,” they answered.  6 He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish.  7 Then the disciple whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” As soon as Simon Peter heard him say, “It is the Lord,” he wrapped his outer garment around him (for he had taken it off) and jumped into the water. 8 The other disciples followed in the boat, towing the net full of fish, for they were not far from shore, about a hundred yards. 9 When they landed, they saw a fire of burning coals there with fish on it, and some bread.  10 Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish you have just caught.” 11 So Simon Peter climbed back into the boat and dragged the net ashore. It was full of large fish, 153, but even with so many the net was not torn. 12 Jesus said to them, “Come and have breakfast.” None of the disciples dared ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Jesus came, took the bread and gave it to them, and did the same with the fish. 14 This was now the third time Jesus appeared to his disciples after he was raised from the dead.  15 When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”  “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.”  Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.”  16 Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”  He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”  Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.”  17 The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”  Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.”  Jesus said, “Feed my sheep. 18 Very truly I tell you, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.” 19 Jesus said this to indicate the kind of death by which Peter would glorify God. Then he said to him, “Follow me!” 

8. How is “failure” in our lives a humbling experience? How do you respond to your own failure (either sin or not being successful)?   

 

9. How has God provided grace to reconcile us to him. (Ephesians 2:3-5, Titus 3:3-7) 

 

Ephesians 2:3–5 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh  and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.  

Titus 3:3–7 At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. 4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life. 

10. How could God use our “failures” to draw us closer to Him?  

 

11. What role can grace play in the process of drawing us closer to him despite our failures?  (1 John 1:9, Philippians 3:12-14) 

 

1 John 1:9  If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 

Philippians 3:12–14 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. 

12.  In the past, how has turning to Jesus, like Peter did, help you grow closer to God? 

 

13. Do you have “failures” for which you need God’s redemption now? Share if you are comfortable. 

 

Challenge – Are we allowing our failures to define us or are we accepting God’s grace to write a new story? 

by Candace Hampton

Here 2 There- Part 3- Disappointment 2 Hope

HERE 2 THERE  

PART 3 - DISAPPOINTMENT 2 HOPE 

 

ICE BREAKER: If you could time travel back to any period in your life and relive it, what period would it be and why? 

“When we become a Christ follower, God begins writing a new story with your life.  A story of Faith, freedom, redemption and promise.” -Pastor Brian 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message? 

 

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2 Kings 2:1-8 When the Lord was about to take Elijah up to heaven in a whirlwind, Elijah and Elisha were on their way from Gilgal. 2 Elijah said to Elisha, “Stay here; the Lord has sent me to Bethel.” But Elisha said, “As surely as the Lord lives and as you live, I will not leave you.” So they went down to Bethel. 3 The company of the prophets at Bethel came out to Elisha and asked, “Do you know that the Lord is going to take your master from you today?” “Yes, I know,” Elisha replied, “so be quiet.” 4 Then Elijah said to him, “Stay here, Elisha; the Lord has sent me to Jericho.” And he replied, “As surely as the Lord lives and as you live, I will not leave you.” So they went to Jericho. 5 The company of the prophets at Jericho went up to Elisha and asked him, “Do you know that the Lord is going to take your master from you today?” “Yes, I know,” he replied, “so be quiet.” 6 Then Elijah said to him, “Stay here; the Lord has sent me to the Jordan.” And he replied, “As surely as the Lord lives and as you live, I will not leave you.” So the two of them walked on. 7 Fifty men from the company of the prophets went and stood at a distance, facing the place where Elijah and Elisha had stopped at the Jordan. 8 Elijah took his cloak, rolled it up and struck the water with it. The water divided to the right and to the left, and the two of them crossed over on dry ground. 

 

2. The Lord was about to take Elijah.  Everywhere Elijah and Elisha went, the prophets knew it and told Elisha.  Elisha always said, “Yes I know, so be quiet.” (2 Kings 2:1-7)  How do you suppose they knew, and why is this included in the text?  What does this reveal about Elisha?

 

2 Kings 2:9-10  When they had crossed, Elijah said to Elisha, “Tell me, what can I do for you before I am taken from you?” “Let me inherit a double portion of your spirit,” Elisha replied. 10 “You have asked a difficult thing,” Elijah said, “yet if you see me when I am taken from you, it will be yours—otherwise, it will not.”

3. Elijah tells Elisha, “Tell me what I can do for you”.  What does Elisha’s request represent? (1Kings 3:9-12) 

 

1 Kings 3:9-12 So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?”10 The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for this. 11 So God said to him, “Since you have asked for this and not for long life or wealth for yourself, nor have asked for the death of your enemies but for discernment in administering justice, 12 I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be.  

 4. Why do you suppose that it was imperative that Elisha be present and view Elijah being taken up?  

 

2 Kings 2:11-12  As they were walking along and talking together, suddenly a chariot of fire and horses of fire appeared and separated the two of them, and Elijah went up to heaven in a whirlwind. 12 Elisha saw this and cried out, “My father! My father! The chariots and horsemen of Israel!” And Elisha saw him no more. Then he took hold of his garment and tore it in two. 

5. Why do you suppose Elijah did not go the ‘old fashioned’ way, and just die?  What do you suppose God is doing/wanting to show us here? 

 

6. Other than people, tell of a life disappointment that you are comfortable sharing about? 

 

 

7. What do you suppose God was doing in your life at that time? 

 

8. Why do we as Christians still have disappointments? (John 16:33). Does Jesus save us from disappointments, why or why not?  What is it that God is working on in our lives? (John 16:33, James 1:2-4, 2 Corinthians 3:18) 

 

John 16:33  “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” 

James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.  

2 Corinthians 3:18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit. 

9. What struggles are you facing right now that you feel comfortable sharing with your Circle Group?  Have you felt like giving up?  How have you seen God in your present struggle? 

 

10. What does Psalm 27:14 demonstrate about disappointment?  Why did the Psalmist have to say this?  What is revealed about man and God in this verse? 

 

Psalm 27:14. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. 

11. Pastor Brian said, “I need to place my hope, trust and confidence somewhere other than self.”  How do we build our hope, trust and confidence in the Lord? How does the story end for those of us who are Christ followers? (Philippian 1:6; Revelation 21:2-5) 

 

Philippians 1:6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. 

Revelation 21:2-5 I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”  5 He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” 

 

2 Kings 2:13-14 Elisha then picked up Elijah’s cloak that had fallen from him and went back and stood on the bank of the Jordan. 14 He took the cloak that had fallen from Elijah and struck the water with it. “Where now is the Lord, the God of Elijah?” he asked. When he struck the water, it divided to the right and to the left, and he crossed over. 

 12. What do you suppose is the point of Elisha asking, “Where is the Lord, the God of Elijah”?  How do you think Elisha felt at this time? 

 

13. What does God show Elisha by dividing the waters of the Jordan? (compare 2 Kings 2:8, 9-10 and 14) 

 

Pastor Brian made the point that God was with Elisha and will always be with every Christ follower.  He then suggested some steps we can take when we feel disappointment: 

  • Hold on to the trust that God will finish what he started. 
  • Hold on to the trust that God will never leave us. 
  • Make the time to meet with God - Bible reading plan, journal, talk to God and listen. 
  • Hold onto God’s people. 
  • Hold onto God’s ordained purpose. 

14. It is up to us to spend time with God, through Bible reading, planning, journaling, talking to God, and listening.  What can your Circle Group do to encourage you in these worship activities?  Personal question: Do you have anyone to hold you accountable? 

 

15. When God instituted the church, it’s to be people who help each other through anything- Pastor Brian.  What can we/you do for others who are struggling with disappointment? (Hebrews 10:24-25) 

 

Hebrews 10:24–25  And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. 

 

No matter how discouraged or disappointed we may feel at the river bank 

God is still faithful! 

 

If There is Time (Extra Questions) 

2 Kings 6: 10-17 So the king of Israel checked on the place indicated by the man of God. Time and again Elisha warned the king, so that he was on his guard in such places. 11 This enraged the king of Aram. He summoned his officers and demanded of them, “Tell me! Which of us is on the side of the king of Israel?” 12 “None of us, my lord the king,” said one of his officers, “but Elisha, the prophet who is in Israel, tells the king of Israel the very words you speak in your bedroom.” 13 “Go, find out where he is,” the king ordered, “so I can send men and capture him.” The report came back: “He is in Dothan.” 14 Then he sent horses and chariots and a strong force there. They went by night and surrounded the city. 15 When the servant of the man of God got up and went out early the next morning, an army with horses and chariots had surrounded the city. “Oh no, my lord! What shall we do?” the servant asked. 16 “Don’t be afraid,” the prophet answered. “Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.” 17 And Elisha prayed, “Open his eyes, Lord, so that he may see.” Then the Lord opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha. 

 1. What is the difference in perspective between Elisha and his servant?   

 

2. Do you tend to share Elisha’s perspective or that of his servant? (2 Kings 2:15-18) 

 

2 Kings 6: 18-23 As the enemy came down toward him, Elisha prayed to the Lord, “Strike this army with blindness.” So he struck them with blindness, as Elisha had asked. 19 Elisha told them, “This is not the road and this is not the city. Follow me, and I will lead you to the man you are looking for.” And he led them to Samaria. 20 After they entered the city, Elisha said, “Lord, open the eyes of these men so they can see.” Then the Lord opened their eyes and they looked, and there they were, inside Samaria. 21 When the king of Israel saw them, he asked Elisha, “Shall I kill them, my father? Shall I kill them?” 22 “Do not kill them,” he answered. “Would you kill those you have captured with your own sword or bow? Set food and water before them so that they may eat and drink and then go back to their master.” 23 So he prepared a great feast for them, and after they had finished eating and drinking, he sent them away, and they returned to their master. So the bands from Aram stopped raiding Israel’s territory. 

3. Pastor Brian challenged us to not allow ourselves to be blinded by our disappointment and miss the larger story that God is allowing us to be a part of. What can we do today to take the focus off the disappointments and put our trust in the hope and future God has for us?

 

by Candace Hampton

Here 2 There Part 2-Regret 2 Redemption

Here 2 There  

Part 2 - Regret 2 Redemption 

Exodus 2:11-15, 3:7-12, 4:1-5, 4:20, 14:15-16, 17:1-7 

 

Ice Breaker: If you could have a superpower, what superpower would you want to have and why? 

1.What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message? 

 

Context: Leading up to this week’s passage: Moses was born a Hebrew slave in Egypt. The Pharaoh issued a decree to have every Hebrew baby boy thrown into the Nile. To avoid having Moses killed, he was put in a floating papyrus basket and put among the reeds where Pharaoh's daughter found him and took him in as her own son. 

 2. In the eyes of the Israelites and the Egyptians, how did Moses’ own behavior bring him guilt and shame? (Exodus 2:11-15) 

 

Exodus 2:11–15 (NIV) One day, after Moses had grown up, he went out to where his own people were and watched them at their hard labor. He saw an Egyptian beating a Hebrew, one of his own people. 12 Looking this way and that and seeing no one, he killed the Egyptian and hid him in the sand. 13 The next day he went out and saw two Hebrews fighting. He asked the one in the wrong, “Why are you hitting your fellow Hebrew?”  14 The man said, “Who made you ruler and judge over us? Are you thinking of killing me as you killed the Egyptian?” Then Moses was afraid and thought, “What I did must have become known.”  15 When Pharaoh heard of this, he tried to kill Moses, but Moses fled from Pharaoh and went to live in Midian, where he sat down by a well.  

3. How did Moses’ heritage and his eventual occupation bring him shame in the eyes of the Egyptians? (Genesis 46:33-34, Exodus 3:1). 

 

Genesis 46:33–34 (NIV) When Pharaoh calls you in and asks, ‘What is your occupation?’ 34 you should answer, ‘Your servants have tended livestock from our boyhood on, just as our fathers did.’ Then you will be allowed to settle in the region of Goshen, for all shepherds are detestable to the Egyptians.” (This passage was when Joseph’s family moved from Canaan to Goshen in Egypt) 

Exodus 3:1 (NIV) Now Moses was tending the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian, and he led the flock to the far side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. 

 4. What was Moses’ response to the Lord speaking to him from the burning bush? How might shame play a role in his response? (Exodus 3:10-12, Exodus 4:1) 

 

Exodus 3:10–12 (NIV) 10 So now, go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt.” 11 But Moses said to God, “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?” 12 And God said, “I will be with you. And this will be the sign to you that it is I who have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you will worship God on this mountain.” 

Exodus 4:1 (NIV) Moses answered, “What if they (the Israelite Elders) do not believe me or listen to me and say, ‘The Lord did not appear to you’?”  

 5. The staff that Moses’ carried with him was the staff of a shepherd. How does God transform what Moses’ staff represents? Why do you think he did this? (Exodus 4:2-5, 14:15-16, 17:5-6) 

 

Exodus 4:2–5 (NIV) Then the Lord said to him, “What is that in your hand?” “A staff,” he replied. 3 The Lord said, “Throw it on the ground.” Moses threw it on the ground and it became a snake, and he ran from it. 4 Then the Lord said to him, “Reach out your hand and take it by the tail.” So Moses reached out and took hold of the snake and it turned back into a staff in his hand. 5 “This,” said the Lord, “is so that they may believe that the Lord, the God of their fathers—the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac and the God of Jacob—has appeared to you.” 

Exodus 14:15–16 (NIV) Then the Lord said to Moses, “Why are you crying out to me? Tell the Israelites to move on. 16 Raise your staff and stretch out your hand over the sea to divide the water so that the Israelites can go through the sea on dry ground. 

Exodus 17:5-6  (NIV) The Lord answered Moses, “Go out in front of the people. Take with you some of the elders of Israel and take in your hand the staff with which you struck the Nile, and go. 6 I will stand there before you by the rock at Horeb. Strike the rock, and water will come out of it for the people to drink.” So Moses did this in the sight of the elders of Israel.  

 Note: Pastor Brian defined guilt as a healthy emotion that convicts you of the wrong that you did, that can lead to confession and forgiveness. Shame on the other hand is an unhealthy emotion that convinces you that you are unacceptable because of something you did or was done to you.  

 6. How did God use the experience of the burning bush to transform Moses from being led by his guilt and shame to providing leadership to bring about God’s will? 

 

7. How did Jesus take on our guilt and shame? What does that mean for those who trust in Him? (1 Corinthians 15: 3-4; Colossians 2:13-15: Romans 8:35-39) 

 

1 Corinthians 15:3–4 (NIV) For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, 4 that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, 

Colossians 2:13–15 (NIV) When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, 14 having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross. 15 And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross. 

Romans 8:35–39 (NIV) Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written:  “For your sake we face death all day long;  we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”   37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. 

8. How has what Jesus did for us transformed our guilt and shame for His use? (1 Corinthians 1:27-30, 2 Corinthians 1: 3-5) 

 

1 Corinthians 1:27–30 (NIV) But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. 28 God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, 29 so that no one may boast before him. 30 It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption.  

 2 Corinthians 1:3–5 (NIV) Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 5 For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. 

 9. What experience or trouble in your life has God turned from guilt or shame to strength or wisdom? How can you use your past troubles to comfort or empower others? 

 

10. What in your past or what narrative have you told yourself that keeps you from letting God redeem that part of your life? (These can be things you have done or believed about yourself, and things others have done to you or said about you that you have not dealt with.) What can you do this week to address this issue? 

 

1 John 1:9 (NIV)  If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (Note: Pastor Brian pointed out that 1 John 1:9 addresses both our guilt through the confession of sins and forgiveness and our shame by purifying us from all righteousness.) 

Romans 12:1–2 (NIV) Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. 

11. What would a new creation, a redeemed life, look or feel like in your life if you give to God the regret that is holding you back? (Colossians 1:13-14; 2 Corinthians 5:17-21; Ephesians 4:22-24) 

 

Colossians 1:13–14 (NIV) For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. 

2 Corinthians 5:17–21 (NIV)  Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. 20 We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. 21 God made him who had no sin to be sin[b] for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.!  

Ephesians 4:22–24 (NIV)  You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. 

 

Let’s let go of shame, thru Jesus. And let him write a story of redemption 

by Candace Hampton

Here 2 There - Part 1- Fear 2 Faith

Here 2 There  

Part 1 - Fear 2 Faith 

I Kings 19:1-18 

ICEBREAKER:  As a child what fears do you remember having? 

  •  What insight, principles or observations did you take away from this Sunday’s message? 

 

Context: Leading up to this week’s passage, Elijah had proven himself to be a powerful man of God standing up to the evil king, Ahab and his queen Jezebel. He prayed for God to stop the rain for three years (1 Kings 17-18) and he called down fire to consume an entire altar leading to the death of 450 prophets of Baal. (1 Kings 18) Yet when Jezebel vowed to have him killed, he “ran for his life.” (1 Kings 19:3)   

Fear 

1 Kings 19:1–9 (NIV) Now Ahab told Jezebel everything Elijah had done and how he had killed all the prophets with the sword. 2 So Jezebel sent a messenger to Elijah to say, “May the gods deal with me, be it ever so severely, if by this time tomorrow I do not make your life like that of one of them.”  3 Elijah was afraid and ran for his life.  When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, 4 while he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. “I have had enough, Lord,” he said. “Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.” 5 Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep.  All at once an angel touched him and said, “Get up and eat.” 6 He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals, and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again.  7 The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, “Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.” 8 So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he traveled forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God.  9There he went into a cave and spent the night.  

1. Despite having seen God do miracles in the past, why do you think Elijah ran? 

2. Even though God nourished and encouraged him during his journey, why do you think he continued to run? Why do you think God allowed Elijah to continue running? (consider the Prodigal Son)

3. Why would Elijah hide in a cave? What is your initial response to fearful situations; do you run, hide or other?  

 

Pastor Brian pointed out that when we run in fear, we too may hide in a proverbial “cave”. He mentions three from the text.  

The Cave of Bitterness  -

1 Kings 9:14 He replied, “I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.”    

In Exodus and Numbers, God rescues the children of Israel from the Pharaoh with many miracles and manifestations including plagues, the parting of the Red Sea, manna, pillar of light to lead them and many more. Yet fear seized them too.   

Numbers 13:30–14:4 Then Caleb silenced the people before Moses and said, “We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it.”  31 But the men who had gone up with him said, “We can’t attack those people; they are stronger than we are.” 32 And they spread among the Israelites a bad report about the land they had explored. They said, “The land we explored devours those living in it. All the people we saw there are of great size. 33 We saw the Nephilim there (the descendants of Anak come from the Nephilim). We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them.”  14 1That night all the members of the community raised their voices and wept aloud. 2 All the Israelites grumbled against Moses and Aaron, and the whole assembly said to them, “If only we had died in Egypt! Or in this wilderness! 3 Why is the LORD bringing us to this land only to let us fall by the sword? Our wives and children will be taken as plunder. Wouldn’t it be better for us to go back to Egypt?” 4 And they said to each other, “We should choose a leader and go back to Egypt.”  

4. What are some of the issues that created fear for these people?  (vs 31, 33, 14:3)  

5. Why do you think these people would rather return to slavery than face their current challenge?  What does this say about their spiritual condition? 

6.  What are some of the issues that create fear for us today? 

7. Why do people today stay in an unhealthy situation rather than challenge it or leave it?   

 

The Cave of Despair -

1 Kings 19:3–5 Elijah was afraid and ran for his life. When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, 4 while he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. “I have had enough, Lord,” he said. “Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.” 5 Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. 

Numbers 11:13-15 “Where am I to get meat to give to all these people?  For they weep before me, saying, ‘Give us meat that we may eat!’ 14 I alone am not able to carry all this people, because it is too burdensome for me. 15 So if You are going to deal thus with me, please kill me at once, If I have found favor in Your sight, and do not let me see my wretchedness.”  

8. Have you ever been without hope?  If yes, what did you do about it?  

9. What role, if any, can my expectations play in creating my despair? 

10. What should we do when we find ourselves in the cave of despair? 

 

The Cave of Complacency –

1 Kings 19:9 There he went into a cave and spent the night. 

11. What are ways we can try to ignore or distract ourselves from facing fearful situations?   

 

I Am With You 

1 Kings 19:11-13 The Lord said, “Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.” Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave. Then a voice said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” 

12. What did God do to get him to face his fear? Describe a time when you needed a dramatic event to get your attention to address your fear or negative circumstance.   

Faith  

“Go Back!” 1 Kings 19:15-18 The Lord said to him, “Go back the way you came, and go to the Desert of Damascus. When you get there, anoint Hazael king over Aram. 16 Also, anoint Jehu son of Nimshi king over Israel, and anoint Elisha son of Shaphat from Abel Meholah to succeed you as prophet. 17 Jehu will put to death any who escape the sword of Hazael, and Elisha will put to death any who escape the sword of Jehu. 18 Yet I reserve seven thousand in Israel—all whose knees have not bowed down to Baal and whose mouths have not kissed him.” 

Luke 22:41–44 He withdrew about a stone’s throw beyond them, knelt down and prayed, 42 “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.” 43 An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him. 44 And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.  

13. Did God remove the cup as Jesus had asked?    

14. What would have been the result had Jesus not moved through His fearful situation? How does this demonstrate Jesus’ trust in God’s plan? 

15. What fears might God be calling you to work through today so you can become more like Him? 

 

It’s time to live outside the cave and live a new story. 

 …His Promise is the Hope we Hold on to…. 

by Candace Hampton

Let Your Light Shine before Others-Live Our Calling, Part 2

Let Your Light Shine Before Others 

Live Our Calling, Part 2 

Leaders: Since this is the first meeting of Circles this semester, if you have any new members in your Circle, this may be a good time for everyone in the group to introduce themselves briefly and perhaps a fun fact about themselves that others in the group may not know. (This activity could be in lieu of the icebreaker)   

Icebreaker:  Describe a time that you were able to share good news with friends or family and how did it make you feel? 

 1.What insight, principle, or observation did you take away from this Sunday’s message?

Light of the World  

Matthew 5:13-16 “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. 14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. 

2. Before refrigeration salt was used to preserve foods so that they could be stored without decay for a long period of time. How are we as Christians like salt?  

3. Matthew likens Christians to the light of the world.  What does this mean? (Matthew 5:14-16, John 8:12, Leviticus 24:2)  

John 8:12  When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.” 

Leviticus 24:2 “Command the Israelites to bring you clear oil of pressed olives for the light so that the lamps may be kept burning continually.  

John 12:36 (NIV) Believe in the light while you have the light, so that you may become children of light.” When he had finished speaking, Jesus left and hid himself from them. 

 4. What do you think was Jesus’s point in Matthew 5:16? (Ephesians 5:8-16) How can we as Christians not lose our saltiness, be visible, and not hide our light? 

Ephesians 5:8–16 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) 10 and find out what pleases the Lord. 11 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. 13 But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. 14 This is why it is said:  “Wake up, sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” 15 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 

Start with Prayer 

5. How can starting with prayer help us to let our light shine? (Matthew 6:33-34, John 16:24

Matthew 6:33–34 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. 

John 16:24 Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete. 

 

Listen to those around us 

Luke 18:35-43 As Jesus approached Jericho, a blind man was sitting by the roadside begging. 36 When he heard the crowd going by, he asked what was happening. 37 They told him, “Jesus of Nazareth is passing by.” 38 He called out, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” 39 Those who led the way rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, “Son of David, have mercy on me!” 40 Jesus stopped and ordered the man to be brought to him. When he came near, Jesus asked him, 41 “What do you want me to do for you?” “Lord, I want to see,” he replied. 42 Jesus said to him, “Receive your sight; your faith has healed you.” 43 Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus, praising God. When all the people saw it, they also praised God. 

6. How did society value the beggar man?  How did Jesus react differently to the man? 

7. How does asking questions and listening to people help us to understand their real needs/situation and assist us in sharing the love of God with them? 

8. What is God calling us to do when we see people in real need? 

 

Show Hospitality  

1 Peter 4:7-11 The end of all things is near. Therefore, be alert and of sober mind so that you may pray. 8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. 9 Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. 10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.  

9. Describe the attitude that we are to have toward others.

10.  In what practical ways can we “offer hospitality” to others? 

 

Serve  

2 Corinthians 9:13 Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves, others will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them and with everyone else. 

11. According to this passage why is it important to serve? How can I serve so that God is praised?  (2 Corinthians 9:13)  

12. What do you think are other reasons it is important to serve? 

 

Sharing Our Story 

13. What are you willing to do? Are you open to being light in the darkness where you are now?  

    • In the friendships you have now? 
    • In the neighborhood you live in now?
    • In the place you work or school you attend now?   

14. Are you open to living the kind of life that will cause people to ask, “what is different about you?” What would that look like?

 

 

by Candace Hampton

Hero Maker Week 3-

Winning Like a Hero Maker

 

ICE BREAKER: What is the biggest thing in your life that you have competed for and won?

 

Pastor Brian started this sermon by saying, “We want to live a significant life. We are trying to win to be significant at life”

 

1. How does our culture define winning at life? How do you define winning at life? What do you think makes a person’s life significant?

 

 

 

 

Mark 10:35-37 Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do for us whatever we ask.” 36 “What do you want me to do for you?” he asked. 37They replied, “Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory.”

2. What is the significance of sitting on the right and left side of Jesus in His glory?

 

 

 

 

3. What are the disciples REALLY asking?

 

 

 

 

4. How do you think the Disciples in their culture viewed significance, power, position, importance in life?

 

 

 

 

5. What do you suppose is motivating James and John to make this request? Do you believe that their request was right or wrong? Why or why not?

 

 

 

 

 

Mark 10:38-45 “You don’t know what you are asking,” Jesus said. “Can you drink the cup I drink or be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with?” 39 “We can,” they answered. Jesus said to them, “You will drink the cup I drink and be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with, 40 but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared.” 41 When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John. 42 Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them.43 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

6. Why did Jesus say, “You don’t know what you are asking”?

 

 

 

 

7. What does the cup and the baptism refer to? (Matthew 26:39)

 

 

 

 

Matthew 26:39 Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”

8. How did the other disciples feel about this request? (Mark 10:41)

 

 

 

 

9. How did Jesus handle this conflict among the disciples? (42-45)

 

 

 

 

10. What is the change in values represented in vs 42-45?

 

 

 

 

11. Jesus taught this lesson before in Mark 9:33-35. The disciples did not learn it the first time. What keeps us from learning lessons and changing our values?

 

 

 

 

Mark 9:33-35 They came to Capernaum. When he was in the house, he asked them, “What were you arguing about on the road?” 34 But they kept quiet because on the way they had argued about who was the greatest. 35 Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, “Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all.”

 

12. What should be our motivation as we serve each other? (John 13:34-35)

 

 

 

John 13:34-35 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

Pastor Brian spoke of Jesus telling the disciples to flip their priorities from a me-first perspective to an others–first perspective. He then asked questions about how our time, resources, family, work, faith and relationships would work if we put others first.

13. How are you doing in living out the Kingdom value of loving others and serving others as Biblical leadership (servant of all)?

 

 

 

 

a. How would you use your TIME if you were less preoccupied with your own agenda?

 

 

b. How would you use your RESOURCES if you prioritized the needs of others – both near and far?

 

 

c. How would your life be different at WORK if you were just as focused on making your co-workers successful as you are yourself?

 

d. How would your life at HOME be different if you looked for opportunities to serve rather than be served?

 

 

e. How would your FAITH be different if you saw church as a community where you can contribute to the mission and not just a place to get your own needs met?

 

 

f. What would all our RELATIONSHIPS look like if we were more interested in how we could serve the people God has placed in our lives rather than being served?

 

 

 

This lesson is the series conclusion about the importance of discipleship in the life of the Christian and in the life of the church. Jesus’ final instruction in Matthew 28:19-20 was to Go and make disciples of all nations. Not just share the gospel, but to make non-believers into disciples, who are then able to make disciples of other non-believers. Consider being discipled by a mentor, or discipling a new Christian or other believers in their next steps toward Christ. Contact the church by using the connections link at sungrove.org/connect

 

Memorize Mark 10:45

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

by Candace Hampton

Hero Maker- Week 2- Living Like a Hero Maker

Hero Maker – Week 2 – Living Like a Hero Maker

Ice Breaker: What is the best approach for you to learn a new task or role?

From Week 1: Jesus commissioned his disciples to “make disciples” in Matthew 28:18-20. Jesus demonstrated the process as he discipled the Apostles and provided a model that we can follow. In ministry, and in life, it is easier to focus on doing the things that need done, on being the disciple/hero rather than the hero-maker. Yet God wants each of us to not only use the gifts he has given us for his purpose, but to teach others to do the same. That is the secret to the Kingdom of God multiplying throughout the generations. The process of hero making involves an intentional approach to recognize who God has given you to apprentice and investing yourself in their lives. At the end of the sermon, Pastor Brian challenged us to ask God who in your sphere of influence or ministry you are to build into.

Luke 6:12–17 One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. 13 When morning came, he called his disciples to him and chose twelve of them, whom he also designated apostles: 14 Simon (whom he named Peter), his brother Andrew, James, John, Philip, Bartholomew, 15 Matthew, Thomas, James son of Alphaeus, Simon who was called the Zealot, 16 Judas son of James, and Judas Iscariot, who became a traitor. 17 He went down with them and stood on a level place. A large crowd of his disciples was there and a great number of people from all over Judea, from Jerusalem, and from the coastal region around Tyre and Sidon,

1. How did Jesus choose his apostles from the multitude that was following him? (Luke 6:12-17) Why do you think He chose only a few people from the large crowd of followers? Note: In this passage the apostles were a small specially chosen group from the larger set of Jesus’ disciples.

 

 

 

 

2. Why do you think it would be important for us to focus our attention on a small group of people?

 

 

 

 

Jesus & “Diatribo”

John 3:22 After this, Jesus and his disciples went out into the Judean countryside, where he spent some time with them, and baptized.

Note: Jesus “spent some time with” his disciples. The original Greek word “Diatribo” (διατρίβω) means "time spent together rubbing shoulders with each other." When you spend enough time with someone you begin to rub off on each other. So when it says Jesus spent time with his disciples, It was through diatribo that his followers ended up turning the world upside down.

3. What general strategy did Jesus use to make disciples once they were chosen? (John 3:22)

 

 

 

 

4. At the end of his sermon last week, Pastor Brian challenged us to take some time to ask God to make clear who are the few people He wants you to intentionally invest in over this next season. Who are the few people you that God has placed on your heart to disciple so that they can take their next step toward Christ?

 

 

 

5. What value can be gained from “spending time with” and doing God’s work with those who you are discipling (apprenticing)? (Deuteronomy 11:18:21, Titus 2:3-5, Acts 16:1-5, 2 Timothy 3:10-11, 14-15)

 

 

 

 

Deuteronomy 11:18–21 Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 19 Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 20 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, 21 so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land the LORD swore to give your ancestors, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth.

Titus 2:3–5 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.

Acts 16:1–5 Paul came to Derbe and then to Lystra, where a disciple named Timothy lived, whose mother was Jewish and a believer but whose father was a Greek. 2 The believers at Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. 3 Paul wanted to take him along on the journey, so he circumcised him because of the Jews who lived in that area, for they all knew that his father was a Greek. 4 As they traveled from town to town, they delivered the decisions reached by the apostles and elders in Jerusalem for the people to obey. 5 So the churches were strengthened in the faith and grew daily in numbers.

2 Timothy 3:10-11,14–15 You, however, know all about my teaching, my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, 11 persecutions, sufferings—what kinds of things happened to me in Antioch, Iconium and Lystra, the persecutions I endured. Yet the Lord rescued me from all of them…. 14 But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 15 and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

 

Note: God’s work can be many possibilities. It can be raising of godly children, doing good in Jesus’ name, working in ministry, sharing the Gospel, doing missions work together, prayer, and workplace discipleship among many. Making disciples begins with influencing and leading someone to Christ, but extends through a person’s life as they continue to take their next steps toward Christ.

6. What keeps us from purposely including others in doing life and ministry with us? How can we overcome this tendency and intentionally make disciples?

 

 

 

 

7. What are ways you can “spend time with” (diatribo) the people you want to disciple?

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. Why do you think it is important to share our lives and ministries utilizing our God-given gifts? Why do you think it is important to recognize the gifts we see in those with whom we are doing life and ministry?

 

 

 

ICNU

9. Andy Stanley in his book Visioneering talks about how important it is to “Speak to someone’s potential instead of their performance.” How do you think the disciples felt when Jesus gave them an aspirational vision of their future? (Matthew 4:18-20; 16:17-19; John 14:12-13) How does it motivate you to know that these aspirational visions are also for us?

 

 

 

 

Matthew 4:18–20 As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. 19 “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” 20 At once they left their nets and followed him.

Matthew 16:17–19 Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock, I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. 19 I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”

John 14:12–13  Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.

 

10. What if someone pulled you aside, looked you in the eye and said, “You know what, I believe you’ve got what it takes. I see in you (ICNU) someone who could influence others towards Jesus. I really think you can do this.” What do you think would be the result of their confidence in you? What if you said something similar to those around you; what do you think the result would be?

 

 

 

 

5 Steps of Hero Making

Step One is I lead, You watch, We talk.

Step Two is I lead, You help, We talk.

Step Three is You lead, I help, We talk.

Step Four is You lead, I watch, We talk.

Step Five is You lead, Someone Else Watches.

11. Each of these 5 steps of hero making are evident in the ministry of Jesus as he built into his Apostles. What do you think was Jesus’ purpose for spending 75% of his ministry time discipling his Apostles? (2 Timothy 2:2, John 17:20-21)

 

 

 

 

John 17:20–21 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.

2 Timothy 2:2 And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.

 

The continuing result has been a multiplying church throughout the generations for nearly 2,000 years.

12. How has this lesson impacted you and how will that affect you in your relationships and your future ministry?

 

 

 

 

Conclusion: Here at Sun Grove, we realize that the work that needs to be done is beyond our capacity. We can only do so much by ourselves, but if we really want to take the mission seriously, we need to start thinking like hero makers to move the mission of Jesus forward.

Summary From the lesson above: Steps to be a Hero Maker

1. Pray for God to show you who are the few from amongst the many you should focus on.

2. Deliberately spend time rubbing shoulders together (diatribo). Use your God given gifts to impact others and have your apprentice join you. Overlap your life with them in your current activities.

3. Point out the strengths that others possess that could be used for the kingdom (ICNU) and point out the future possibilities (ICU-becoming).

4. Follow the 5 steps of Hero Making

Step 1 - I lead, you watch, we talk

Step 2 – I lead, you help, we talk

Step 3 – You lead, I help, we talk

Step 4 – You lead, I watch, we talk

Step 5 – You lead, someone else watches,

by Candace Hampton

Hero Maker- Week 1

Hero Maker – Week 1 

 

Ice Breaker: As a child, who in your life had the greatest positive influence on you other than your parents? Describe. 

 

From Pastor Brian: “In Matt. 28:18-20 Jesus is calling on his disciples and us to live on a mission.  He is commissioning us not to become heroes but to be hero makers, people who make disciples apprentices of Jesus.” 

1. How did Jesus recruit his disciples (students)? (Mark 1:16-20, Mark 2:13-14, John 1:44-49) 

 

 

 

 

Mark 1:16–20 As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. 17 “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” 18 At once they left their nets and followed him.  19 When he had gone a little farther, he saw James son of Zebedee and his brother John in a boat, preparing their nets. 20 Without delay he called them, and they left their father Zebedee in the boat with the hired men and followed him. 

Mark 2:13–14 Once again Jesus went out beside the lake. A large crowd came to him, and he began to teach them. 14 As he walked along, he saw Levi son of Alphaeus sitting at the tax collector’s booth. “Follow me,” Jesus told him, and Levi got up and followed him.  

John 1:44–49 Philip, like Andrew and Peter, was from the town of Bethsaida. 45 Philip found Nathanael and told him, “We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law, and about whom the prophets also wrote—Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.”  46 “Nazareth! Can anything good come from there?” Nathanael asked.  “Come and see,” said Philip.  47 When Jesus saw Nathanael approaching, he said of him, “Here truly is an Israelite in whom there is no deceit.”  48 “How do you know me?” Nathanael asked.  Jesus answered, “I saw you while you were still under the fig tree before Philip called you.”  49 Then Nathanael declared, “Rabbi, you are the Son of God; you are the king of Israel.” 

2. What qualifications, if any, were required to be recruited? (Luke 9:23-25, 57-62, Acts 9:1-6) 

 

 

 

 

  

Luke 9:23–25 (NIV) Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. 24 For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. 25 What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self? 

Acts 9:1–6 (NIV)  Meanwhile, Saul was still breathing out murderous threats against the Lord’s disciples. He went to the high priest 2 and asked him for letters to the synagogues in Damascus, so that if he found any there who belonged to the Way, whether men or women, he might take them as prisoners to Jerusalem. 3 As he neared Damascus on his journey, suddenly a light from heaven flashed around him. 4 He fell to the ground and heard a voice say to him, “Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?”  5 “Who are you, Lord?” Saul asked.  “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,” he replied. 6 “Now get up and go into the city, and you will be told what you must do.” 

 

Luke 9:57–62  As they were walking along the road, a man said to him, “I will follow you wherever you go.”  58 Jesus replied, “Foxes have dens and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head.”  59 He said to another man, “Follow me.”  But he replied, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.”  60 Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the kingdom of God.”  61 Still another said, “I will follow you, Lord; but first let me go back and say goodbye to my family.”  62 Jesus replied, “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.” 

3. How did Jesus train his disciples? (Mark 3:13-15, Luke 9:16-17) 

 

 

 

  

Mark 3:13–15 (NIV) Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him. 14 He appointed twelve that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach 15 and to have authority to drive out demons.  

Luke 9:16–17 (NIV) Taking the five loaves and the two fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke them. Then he gave them to the disciples to distribute to the people. 17 They all ate and were satisfied, and the disciples picked up twelve basketfuls of broken pieces that were left over.  

Matthew 28:18–20 Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” 

4. What did Jesus ask his disciples to do? What do you think making disciples means? (1 Kings 19:19-21, 2 Timothy 3:10-14, 1 Corinthians 11:1) 

 

 

 

  

1 Kings 19:19–21 So Elijah went from there and found Elisha son of Shaphat. He was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen, and he himself was driving the twelfth pair. Elijah went up to him and threw his cloak around him. 20 Elisha then left his oxen and ran after Elijah. “Let me kiss my father and mother goodbye,” he said, “and then I will come with you.”  “Go back,” Elijah replied. “What have I done to you?”  21 So Elisha left him and went back. He took his yoke of oxen and slaughtered them. He burned the plowing equipment to cook the meat and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he set out to follow Elijah and became his servant.  

2 Timothy 3:10–14 You (Timothy), however, know all about my teaching, my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, 11 persecutions, sufferings—what kinds of things happened to me in Antioch, Iconium and Lystra, the persecutions I endured. Yet the Lord rescued me from all of them. 12 In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 13 while evildoers and impostors will go from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. 14 But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 

1 Corinthians 11:1 Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. 

5. How is disciple-making more than sharing the Gospel? When do you think disciple-making begins? 

 

 

 

 

2 Timothy 2:2 And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.   

 

6. What keeps us from living out our faith in front of others and training others to follow Christ? 

 

 

 

  

In his sermon Pastor Brian stated that Jesus takes the initiative to call us to be “hero makers” (disciple-makers) and secondly that he calls regular people.   

 7. Do you feel you have been discipled and if not, what should your next step be to get discipled so that you can disciple others? 

 

 

 

 

8. Being a disciple-maker includes many activities including evangelism, teaching, loving and serving one another, caring for the least of these in Jesus’ name among many others: How do you believe God has gifted you to make disciples?  

 

 

 

 

9. How can you consider others as you become a disciple maker?  (Philippians 2:3-5)

 

 

Philippians 2:3-5 Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with  humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; 4 do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interest of others.  5 Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus.

 

Andy Stanley in his book Visioneering talks about how important it is to “Speak to someone’s potential instead of their performance.”  Pastor Brian said this means we must learn to see others in the concept of ICNU (I see in you). 

I-C-N-U is twofold: 

  • There’s what I-C-N-U right now, which is huge because we often can’t see the good in ourselves that others can see in us. 
  • But I-C-N-U can also be about what I-C-N your future: what I-C-U becoming.

 

10. Who in your world could you build up by noticing the gifts, abilities, and strengths God has given them? What would that look like? 

 

 

 

 

11. How can you help them to see their own potential for what they could become in Christ? What would that look like?

 

 

 

by Candace Hampton

Story of Everything- Week 3- Holy Spirit

STORY OF EVERYTHING

Week 3- Holy Spirit

Icebreaker: Who do you know who works behind the scenes and yet is very impactful? How do you appreciate them?

Recap: The Bible is about a story, a great story, a true story of everything pertaining to life. The story tells about the 3 in 1 God, the devastation of sin, and the story continues telling the wonderful work of the Holy Spirit, the third person of the Trinity.

I. The Spirit Early in the Story

Genesis 1:1-2 "In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters.”

1. The Hebrew word for Spirit is ruah. It is translated not only as spirit, but also wind and breath. How do the descriptions of wind and breath describe the characteristics of the Spirit?

 

 

 

2. The Hebrew word for hovering is rachaph or perhaps brooding and fertilizing. (Brown-Driver-Briggs Hebrew and English Lexicon, Unabridged, Electronic Database) How do brooding and fertilizing enhance our understanding of the work of the Spirit during Creation?

 

 

 

(In the Old Testament) “there were occasions when this divine power seemed to overtake and possess an individual fully, so that his or her words or actions far transcended those of normal behavior. Such a person was clearly marked as an agent of God’s purpose and given respect.” (Elwell, Walter A., and Philip Wesley Comfort. Tyndale Bible dictionary ) Examples include Joseph (Genesis 41:36), Bezalel (Exodus 35:31), various judges in the book of Judges, King Saul, King David, various prophets among many others.

II. Role of the Holy Spirit in Jesus’ Time

Luke 1:26-35 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” 29Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.” 34“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” 35The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.

3. What role did the Holy Spirit play in the birth of Jesus? How did the Holy Spirit assure Mary?

 

 

 

 

Luke 3:21-22  When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too. And as he was praying, heaven was opened 22and the Holy Spirit descended on him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven: “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.”

4. How would you describe Jesus Christ’s relationship with the Father and the Holy Spirit?

 

 

 

Luke 4:14-19 Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit, and news about him spread through the whole countryside. 15He was teaching in their synagogues, and everyone praised him. 16He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read, 17and the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written: 18“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, 19to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

5. What is the partnership of the Son and the Holy Spirit like at the onset of Christ’s ministry?

 

 

 

6. Why was it important that Jesus recognized the Holy Spirit publicly? (Verse 18)

 

 

 

 

Matthew 4:1 Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.

 

7. Why was it crucial that the Holy Spirit led the Son to the devil’s temptation? We go through temptations too. How do we let the Holy Spirit lead us?

 

 

 

 

Romans 8:11 And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you.

1 Corinthians 15:55 “Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?”

8. By what power was Jesus raised? What ultimate power does the Holy Spirit possess?

 

 

 

 

9. How does knowing the Holy Spirit has power over death help us to live well today?

 

 

 

 

III. The Holy Spirit in the Present Age

The Holy Spirit, the third person of the God-head, moved among various people and events in the Old Testament, indwells in all Christ’s followers today and then all people in the last days.

 

John 14:16-17 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.

10. What has God promised to those who believe in Christ? What value does the Spirit helping us and being with us forever provide?

 

 

 

 

11. If He’s in me, why don’t I feel Him?

 

 

 

IV. Reasons for the Gift of the Holy Spirit

a. The Holy Spirit is for Transformation (Metamorphosis)

2 Corinthians 3:18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed (metamorphoó) into His image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.

I John 4:4 “Greater is He that is in me, than he that is in the world.” NASB

12. What is God transforming us into? What role do we have to play in the transformation? What successes and/or struggles are you experiencing in your transformation? (Romans 12:1-2)

 

 

 

 

Romans 12:1–2 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

b. The Holy Spirit is for Illumination (Guide)

John 16:13 But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. . . . and He will tell you what is yet to come.

13. If the Holy Spirit is my Guide why don’t I sense his leading? How is the Holy Spirit guiding you today? In what direction?

 

 

 

c. Holy Spirit is for Edification: (Build each other up)

1 Corinthians 12:4–7 There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. 5 There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. 6 There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. 7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.

14. How has God gifted you and how are your gifts being used to build up the Body of Christ?

 

 

 

d. Holy Spirit is for Proclamation (Bear Witness)

Acts 1:8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

15. Who in your life do you want to ask the Holy Spirit to give you the power to witness the truth of Christ? How can the group pray for you and that person/people?

 

 

 

Be the child of God who unleashes the power of the Holy Spirit.

...to see Transformation, Illumination, Edification, Proclamation

 

Memorize. “Greater is He that is in me, than he that is in the world.” 1 John 4:4

by Candace Hampton

The Story of Everything- Week #2 -God Makes A Way

The Story of Everything – Week #2

God Makes a Way

Icebreaker: Tell us about something you restored that was broken or run down?

 

This is how God is with us. God created Adam and Eve to fellowship with Him, but he gave them free will. This meant that they had the opportunity to hurt their relationship with God by not following His plan. Unfortunately, they chose their own way. But God had a plan for their redemption.

Sin enters the world

Genesis 3:1–13 (NIV) Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” 2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’ ” 4 “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. 7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. 8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the LORD God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the LORD God called to the man, “Where are you?” 10 He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.” 11 And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” 12 The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” 13 Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

1. Why did Adam and Eve eat the fruit of the tree?

 

 

 

 

2. How did this act affect their relationship with God? How do you know?

 

 

 

 

3. How are we, likewise, attracted to doing things to hurt our relationship with God? (Isaiah 59:1-3, Romans 1:25)

 

 

 

 

Isaiah 59:1-3 Surely the arm of the LORD is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. 2 But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear. 3 For your hands are stained with blood, your fingers with guilt. Your lips have spoken falsely, and your tongue mutters wicked things…..

Romans 1:25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

 

4. What were the just consequences of Adam and Eve’s decision to eat from this tree? (Genesis 3:22-23, Romans 5:12, Matthew 13:40-42)

 

 

 

 

Genesis 3:22–23 (the past)

22 And the LORD God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever.” 23 So the LORD God banished him from the Garden of Eden to work the ground from which he had been taken.

Romans 5:12 (the present)

12 Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all people, because all sinned—

Matthew 13:40-42 (the future)

40 “As the weeds are pulled up and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the age. 41 The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will weed out of his kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. 42 They will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. 43 Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Whoever has ears, let them hear

Although God banished Adam and Eve from the Garden, He still wanted fellowship with them – they were His children. But because God is righteous and just, He cannot look upon sin. He set up a way for the Israelites to ‘sacrifice’ something they valued in order to maintain relationship with them. However, no sacrifice from the Jews could actually make up for their sins.

God provides the answer - Redemption

To Redeem – to recover ownership of by paying a specified sum

5. How did Jesus solve this problem? (Leviticus 5:6; John 3:16; Romans 3:24-25) What would you say was God’s motivation for Jesus’ sacrifice?

 

 

 

Leviticus 5:6 As a penalty for the sin they have committed, they must bring to the LORD a female lamb or goat from the flock as a sin offering; and the priest shall make atonement for them for their sin.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

Romans 3:24–25 and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. 25 God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood—to be received by faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished—

Romans 5:17–19 For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive God’s abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ! 18 Consequently, just as one trespass resulted in condemnation for all people, so also one righteous act resulted in justification and life for all people. 19 For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous.

Philippians 2:5-11 5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: 6 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!

Incarnation: that act of grace whereby Christ took our human nature into union with his Divine Person, became man. Christ is both God and man. Human attributes and actions are predicated of him, and he of whom they are predicated is God. A Divine Person was united to a human nature. The union is hypostatical, i.e., is personal; the two natures are not mixed or confounded, and it is perpetual (BibleStudiesTools.com)

6. Why is it important that Jesus was fully God but also fully man? (Philippians 2:7-8, Colossians 2:9-10, Hebrews 10:1 and 14)

 

 

 

 

Colossians 2:9–10 For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, 10 and in Christ you have been brought to fullness. He is the head over every power and authority.

Hebrews 10:1 and 14 The law is only a shadow of the good things that are coming – not the realities themselves. For this reason it can never, by the same sacrifices repeated endlessly year after year, make perfect those who draw near to worship……. For by one sacrifice, He has made perfect forever those who are being made holy.

Future Glory

Philippians 2:9-11 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

7. What is the position that God the Father gave to Jesus? (Philippians 2:9)

 

 

 

 

8. Where will all people be in the future? (Philippians 2:10-11)

 

 

 

 

9. Given that all people will acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, what is the difference in outcome between being a believer or nonbeliever? (Matthew 25:31-46)

 

 

 

 

Matthew 25:31-46 “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ 37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ 41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ 44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’ 45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’ 46 “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”

Application

10. What should be our response to our sin problem?

 

 

 

 

11. How have we appreciated what Jesus has done for us?

 

 

 

 

12. John says that we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters because that is what Jesus did. What are practical ways that we can follow His example?

 

by Candace Hampton

The Story of Everything - Genesis 1 & John 1

The Story of Everything

Genesis 1 & John 1

Icebreaker: Who is the most loving person in your life, and why?

The Beginning

Genesis 1:1-5

1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters.3 And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. 4 God saw that the light was good, and he separated the light from the darkness. 5 God called the light “day,” and the darkness he called “night.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the first day.

1. Who is the main character of the Story of Everything? Why is this important? (Genesis 1:1)

 

 

 

2. Why is it significant that God spoke the creation of the heavens and the earth? What does this display about the power of His word?

 

 

 

 

Genesis 1:26-28

26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals,[a]and over all the creatures that move along the ground.”27 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.28 God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”

3. What does the statement, “Let US make man in OUR own image” reveal about who God is?

 

 

 

4. What does the fact that we are created in God’s image indicate about our role in this world and how much God values us? (Genesis 1:28, John 3:16)

 

 

 

 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

 

God is the central character in the Story of Everything.

The Word Became Flesh (John 1:1-5,14)

John 1:1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was with God in the beginning. 3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. 4 In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. 5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome[a] it....

14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

5. What does John mean, that Jesus is the Word? What does John 1 add to the story of creation? (John 1:1)

 

 

 

 

6. What is the implication that the Apostle John is making in his account of Jesus as the Word? (Colossians 1:15-17)

 

 

 

 

 

Colossians 1:15-17 The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. 16 For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. 17 He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.

 

Transliteration of “God” in Genesis 1 from the Hebrew is “Elohim”. Elohim is a plural noun, that has singular verbs and adjectives. This idea of God being three persons, yet one essence is known theologically as the Trinity.

7. How is the Trinity displayed in the account of creation? (Genesis 1:1-2, John 1:1)

 

 

 

 

8. How do the passages below indicate that God is relational in the Trinity? What does God being relational mean to mankind? (1 John 1:3, 1 Corinthians 1:9, 2 Corinthians 13:14)

 

 

 

 

1 John 1:3 3 We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ.

John 17:20–21 20 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.

2 Corinthians 13:14 14 May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.

1 John 4:7-10

7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

9. What is true of everyone who has been born of God and knows God? (1John 4:7). What is true of those who do not love? (1 John 4:8)

 

 

 

 

 

10. When Jesus is asked about the greatest commandment, He includes the first and second greatest commandments. What do these verses say about how important it is to God that we love each other? (Matthew 22:37-40, Mark 12:29-31, John 13:34-35)

 

 

 

 

 

Matthew 22:37-40 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[c] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[d] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

 

 

Mark 12:29-31 29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[e] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[f] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[g] There is no commandment greater than these.”

John 13:34-35 34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

11. What in our world keeps us from loving each other? (Galatians 5:19-21, James 4:1-3)

 

 

 

 

Galatians 5:19-21 19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

James 4:1-3 1 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

 

 

 

12. What are some practical ways that we can love each other? (Galatians 5:13, Ephesians 4:2, Hebrews 10:24). Can you think of others?

 

 

 

 

Galatians 5:13 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.

Ephesians 4:2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds,

Suggested Scripture Memory: 1 John 4: 9-10. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.

by Candace Hampton

Remark-able Series- Week 5- Wise and Foolish Words

Remark-able Series - Week 5 

Wise and Foolish Words 

Ice Breaker: What was your most embarrassing moment? And why? 

 

A note about the literary structure of much of the Book of Proverbs: Many of the proverbs are written as “two-lined proverbs” and are either synonymous (two lines making the same point) or antithetical (two lines making contrasting points). Therefore, some of the Proverbs used to answer one question about foolishness may also help to answer a different question on wisdom. 

 1. What is foolishness? (Psalms 14:1, Proverbs  28:26, Romans 8:6-8, 1 Corinthians 3:18-19) 

 

 

 

 

 

Psalm 14:1 The fool says in his heart, “There is no God.” They are corrupt, their deeds are vile; there is no one who does good. 

Proverbs 28:26 Those who trust in themselves are fools, but those who walk in wisdom are kept safe. 

Romans 8:6–8 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. 7 The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. 8 Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God. 

1 Corinthians 3:18–19 Do not deceive yourselves. If any of you think you are wise by the standards of this age, you should become “fools” so that you may become wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God’s sight. As it is written: “He catches the wise in their craftiness”; 

2. How would you define Biblical wisdom? (Proverbs 9:6,9-10, 14:16, 16:21, 18:15, Ephesians 5:15-17) How is it different than knowledge? 

 

 

 

 

Proverbs 9:6, 9-10 6 Leave your simple ways and you will live; walk in the way of insight.” … 9 Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous and they will add to their learning. 10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. 

Proverbs 14:16 The wise fear the Lord and shun evil, but a fool is hotheaded and yet feels secure. 

Proverbs 16:21  The wise in heart are called discerning, and gracious words promote instruction.  

Proverbs 18:15 The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out.  

Ephesians 5:15–17 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 

3. How can we tell whether a person is a fool or acting foolishly? (Proverbs 10:23, 20:3, 21:10) 

 

 

 

Proverbs 10:23 A fool finds pleasure in wicked schemes, but a person of understanding delights in wisdom. 

Proverbs 20:3 It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel. 

Proverbs 21:20 The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down. 

4. What is the consequence for listening to foolishness? (Proverbs 13:20, 2 Corinthians 6:14) 

 

 

 

Proverbs 13:20 whoever walks with fools will suffer harm. 

2 Corinthians 6:14  Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 

5. Why is it beneficial to live in wisdom? (Psalm 1:1-4)

 

 

 

 

 

Psalm 1:1–4 Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, 2 but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. 3 That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers.  4 Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away.

 

6. Ephesians 4:25-32 is part of a passage where Paul is instructing the church to put off the old foolish self and replace it “with the truth that is in Jesus” (Ephesians 4:20). Read through the passage and pick out the foolishness, the wisdom, and the benefits of the wisdom. 

 

 

 

 

 Ephesians 4:25–32 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.  29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. 

 

Focusing on Words (Ephesians 4:29) 

Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 

 

7. What are foolish ways to use words? (Proverbs 10:18, 12:19, 18:6-7, Ephesians 4:29, 5:4) 

 

 

 

 

Proverbs 10:18 Whoever conceals hatred with lying lips and spreads slander is a fool. 

Proverbs 12:19 Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue lasts only a moment. 

Proverbs 18:6–7 The lips of fools bring them strife, and their mouths invite a beating. 7 The mouths of fools are their undoing, and their lips are a snare to their very lives. 

Ephesians 5:4  Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 

8. What are the dangers of using our words in foolish ways? (James 3:5-10) 

 

 

 

 

James 3:5–10 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.  7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.  9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.  

 

9. According to Ephesians 4:29, What are the characteristics of “wholesome talk”? 

 

 

 

 

10. Tell about a time when someone built you up with their words to help you when you needed it. 

 

 

 

 

11. What are practical ways to build up others according to their needs? 

 

 

 

 

From the sermon, Pastor Brian offers 3 WISE ways to build others with our words! Words that Give courage; words that give strength; words of warning. 

 

12. Consider someone you would like to build up according to their needs and how would you go about doing that?

 

 

 

 

 

Memory Verse Challenge Ephesians 4:29 

Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 

Ephesians 5:15–17 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 

by Candace Hampton

Remarkable- Values, Boundaries and Self Control

Remarkable Week 4 – Values, Boundaries and Self Control 

Icebreaker: What is something you value other than your immediate family and your faith? What boundaries have you set to protect it? 

Series Recap: We’re in our series today called “Remarkable", which is a series about words and phrases in Proverbs that can bring new life to our relationships and keep our actions aligned with our values.   

1.What does Jesus state is his primary mission? (Luke 19:10; Matthew 20:28; John 3:16; John 12:49-50) How does this show that his primary value was people? 

 

 

 

 

 

Luke 19:10 For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” 

Matthew 20:28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 

John 12:49–50 For I did not speak on my own, but the Father who sent me commanded me to say all that I have spoken. 50 I know that his command leads to eternal life. So whatever I say is just what the Father has told me to say.” 

 

John 18:37 “You are a king, then!” said Pilate.  Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. In fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.” 

 

Jesus said NO to Protect His Values 

Matthew 4:1-10 Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted  by the devil. 2 After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3 The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”  4 Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”  5 Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. 6 “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written: “ ‘He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’”  7 Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’”  8 Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9 “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”  10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’” 

2. How did the devil try to distract Jesus from his mission? 

 

 

 

 

3. What values did Jesus reject and what values did He uphold? 

 

 

 

 

 

4. How did Jesus demonstrate faithfulness and self-control? 

 

 

 

 

5. How does Jesus describe our primary values (Matthew 22:37-40, John 13:34-35) 

 

 

 

 

Matthew 22:37–40 Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’  38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” 

 John 13:34–35   “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” 

6. How does Satan and the world seek to distract us from serving God and being on mission? (Matthew 13:19-22) 

 

 

 

 

Matthew 13:19–22 When anyone hears the message about the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what was sown in their heart. This is the seed sown along the path. 20 The seed falling on rocky ground refers to someone who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. 21 But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. 22 The seed falling among the thorns refers to someone who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, making it unfruitful 

7. How can surrendering our lives to God’s authority make it possible to reject distractions to stay on mission?  

 

 

 

 

 

Proverb 25:28 Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control. 

(This proverb is talking about how a lack of discipline can break down our lives. By learning to say NO you are building up protection like a city that is well protected.) 

8. Why is a broken-down wall such a good illustration of lack of self-control?  

 

 

 

 

 

9. What are some of your more important values but at the same time, also the hardest thing you have self-control with? What might be the problem? 

 

 

 

 

10. If you take a personal inventory, what better value or behavior would you like to acquire? 

 

 

 

 

11. How does saying NO help us to stay on mission?   

 

 

 

 

12. What do you need to say NO to in order to protect your values?  What boundaries should you set for yourself? 

 

 

 

 

 

13. This week, how can we in the circle group help each other to live truer to our values and to protect our boundaries? 

 

 

 

Commit today to saying NO to the distractions and other opportunities so you can say YES to the relationship with God and others.

by Candace Hampton