Whenever - You Take Communion
WHENEVER- You Take Communion
Ice Breaker: Do you have something, an object in your life that provokes memories of someone, or something positive that happened in your life?
Pastor Dave shared the meaning of the cups in the Passover meal.
Pastor Dave reviewed the Passover meal as a symbolic reminder of everything God had done in the history of Israel, His purpose in Israel, and their expectation of the coming of Elijah, (the forerunner of the Messiah) as well as the Messiah. The Messiah, Jesus, changes this symbolism from expectation of His appearance to remembrance of His finished work on the cross.
1.What was the original purpose of the Passover? (Exodus 13:8-10)
Exodus 13:8–10 (NIV) 8 On that day tell your son, ‘I do this because of what the LORD did for me when I came out of Egypt.’ 9 This observance will be for you like a sign on your hand and a reminder on your forehead that this law of the LORD is to be on your lips. For the LORD brought you out of Egypt with his mighty hand. 10 You must keep this ordinance at the appointed time year after year.
2. How does the history of the Passover in Israel play into communion?
3. How does this change your understanding of Communion?
4. How much do you think His disciples understood what Jesus was saying at the first communion? (1 Corinthians 11:23-30)
1 Corinthians 11:23-30 23 For I received from the Lord what I also passed on to you: The Lord Jesus, on the night he was betrayed, took bread, 24 and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.” 25 In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me.” 26 For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes. 27 So then, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord. 28 Everyone ought to examine themselves before they eat of the bread and drink from the cup. 29 For those who eat and drink without discerning the body of Christ eat and drink judgment on themselves. 30 That is why many among you are weak and sick, and a number of you have fallen asleep.
5. What is the significance of remembrance in these passages? (Exodus 13 and 1 Corinthians 11)
6. How do we practice remembrance of Christ’s sacrifice?
7. What is the caution or admonition given in 1 Corinthians 11:27-30?
8. What are the “unworthy manner” (v. 27) practices Paul is addressing? (1 Corinthians 11:17-22, Matthew 5:23-24)
1 Corinthians 11:17-22 17 In the following directives I have no praise for you, for your meetings do more harm than good. 18 In the first place, I hear that when you come together as a church, there are divisions among you, and to some extent I believe it. 19 No doubt there have to be differences among you to show which of you have God’s approval. 20 So then, when you come together, it is not the Lord’s Supper you eat, 21 for when you are eating, some of you go ahead with your own private suppers. As a result, one person remains hungry and another gets drunk. 22 Don’t you have homes to eat and drink in? Or do you despise the church of God by humiliating those who have nothing? What shall I say to you? Shall I praise you? Certainly not in this matter!
Matthew 5:23-24 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.
9. What would a worthy communion look like?
10. What does 1 Corinthians 11:30 indicate about how seriously God takes this issue of communion?
11. 1 Corinthians 11:26 Says that we proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes. Why are we proclaiming the Lord’s death?
From Prime, Derek. Opening up 1 Corinthians. Leominister: Day One Publications, 2005. Print. Opening Up Commentary.
- We should look back—in remembrance (vv. 24, 25).
- We should look up—in thanksgiving to God (vv. 24, 25).
- We should look round—to make sure we are in a relationship of fellowship and love with God’s people (vv. 17–22).
- We should look in—in self-examination (vv. 27–34).
- We should look forward—to our Lord’s coming again (v. 26).
Pastor Dave said: ”Do not have your children take communion, until they place their faith in Jesus, and understand His sacrifice”. Communion does not remove sin, Jesus’ death on the cross does that. Communion does not take sin away from us, or promote salvation. Communion is not a medicine to make us feel better.
12. What should we teach our children about Communion?
13. How would you describe communion to an unbelieving person to share the gospel?
14. What is a take-away for you from this discussion of communion?
Whoever Welcomes The Little Children
WHOEVER WELCOMES THE LITTLE CHILDREN
Icebreaker: What was the craziest thing you did as a child?
1. How has child rearing changed over the previous generations? In what ways is it easier? In what ways is it harder?
Children are VIVID - V valuable/I immature/V vulnerable/I imperfect/D dependent
2. What do you think Jesus meant that “unless you and I change and become like these little children, you cannot enter the kingdom of heaven”? (Matthew 18:1-6)
Matthew 18:1-6 At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. 3 And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change & become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4 Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me. 6 “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck & to be drowned in the depths of the sea.
3. Why do you think children seem sometimes to have an easier time than parents in coming to love God? (Luke 18:15-17; Matthew 21:15,16)
Luke 18:15-17 People were also bringing babies to Jesus for him to place his hands on them. When the disciples saw this, they rebuked them. 16 But Jesus called the children to him and said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. 17 Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
Matthew 21:15-16 But when the chief priests and the teachers of the law saw the wonderful things he did and the children shouting in the temple courts, “Hosanna to the Son of David,” they were indignant. 16 “Do you hear what these children are saying?” they asked him. “Yes,” replied Jesus, “have you never read, “‘From the lips of children and infants you, Lord, have called forth your praise’?”
4. How do we, as parents, guide our children toward obedience, rather than disobedience? (Romans 1:29-32; Ephesians 6:1)
Romans 1:29-32 They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed & depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31 they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy. 32 Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
Ephesians 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
5. In what manner do Fathers often exasperate their children? Can you remember incidents of being “exasperated” by your father? How are you seeking to avoid that with your children?
Ephesians 6:4 (NIV only) Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
Pastor Dave: Children spell love “T-I-M-E.” Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.
6. How do (or did) you give time to your children? What, if anything, would you seek to change?
7. What do you think Proverbs 22:6 means? How should we go about “training up a child in the way he should go”?
Proverbs 22:6 ESV Train up a child in the way he should go, and even when he is old he will not turn from it.
8. How should we guide our children away from bad company? (1 Cor. 15:33; Proverbs 13:20)
1 Corinthians 15:33-34 Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” 34 Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning; for there are some who are ignorant of God—I say this to your shame.
Proverbs 13:20 Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.
EVERYTHING WE DO IS WITH THE NEXT GENERATION IN MIND.
9. How might we improve “our investment” in our children? (Psalm 71:18)
Psalm 71:18 Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, my God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your mighty acts to all who are to come.
10. How does the above verse apply to other people’s children?
11. How does this verse apply to adult children?
Pastor Dave: Here’s why you need this sermon: You must grow in how you care for and consider children.
12. How might we pray more effectively for those of our own children who are apparently lost?
13. How might we pray and care for others who are so frustrated with grown-up children not following the Lord?
Whoever- The Down Way Up
Whoever - The Down Way Up
Ice Breaker: What did you want to be when you grew up and why? Or What do you want to do when you retire?
Profound Emptiness in the Narrative of Success
1.What is the world’s narrative of success?
2. To what are people looking to save them from the difficulties of this world?
3. Who are the people in the public that appear to have it all (success, wealth, power, influence, beauty) but are empty? (Ecclesiastes 2:10-11)
Ecclesiastes 2:10–11 (NIV) 10 I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil. 11 Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.
The Down Way Up
Main Idea: Lasting identity is found in the down way up.
From Pastor Dave’s Sermon: Jesus was rejected by people, suffered at their hands, was killed and rose again to new life. (Luke 9:22) He is not asking of you something he was not willing to endure himself! Jesus comes along and suggests the way to upgrade is to downgrade. It’s the down way up.
Luke 9:21–25 (NIV) 21 Jesus strictly warned them not to tell this to anyone. 22 And he said, “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life.” 23 Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. 24 For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. 25 What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self?
4. How does what Jesus did demonstrate the "down way up” principle? (Luke 9:22)
5. What does Jesus teach his Disciples about “the down way up” principle? (Luke 9:23-24) What do you think “take up their cross daily” means?
6. What is the consequence for not following the “down way up” principle when it applies to salvation? (Luke 9:24-25) How does this contradict the philosophies of the world and the “prosperity gospel”?
7. How do the following passages also teach to live the “down way up” principle?
a. Psalm 34:12–13 (NIV) 12 Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, 13 keep your tongue from evil and your lips from telling lies.
b. Proverbs 11:25 (NIV) 25 A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.
c. Mark 9:35 (NIV) 35 Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, “Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all.”
d. Galatians 2:20–21 (NIV) 20 I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. 21 I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!”
The J.O.Y. Principle
8. How can living the J.O.Y principle (Jesus first, then Others, then Yourself) keep us from hedonism (self-indulgence)? (Luke 10:27-28)
Luke 10:27–28 (NIV) 27 He answered, “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” 28 “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”
9. How can the J.O.Y principle help us in our marriages, dating, and our other relationships?
10. Pastor Dave gave three examples of the way Christians live differently than the world by living the “down way up”: How we use our time, our money and our sexuality. How can the J.O.Y. principle be used in each of these areas?
“He must become greater; I must become less.” (John 3:30)
11. How does John the Baptist exemplify the “down way up” principle? (John 3:25-30)
John 3:25–30 (NIV) 25 An argument developed between some of John’s disciples and a certain Jew over the matter of ceremonial washing. 26 They came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan—the one you testified about—look, he is baptizing, and everyone is going to him.” 27 To this John replied, “A person can receive only what is given them from heaven. 28 You yourselves can testify that I said, ‘I am not the Messiah but am sent ahead of him.’ 29 The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete. 30 He must become greater; I must become less.”
12. What are ways you live the “down way up” (John 3:30)? How can living this way help others see God?
Lasting identity is found in the down way up.
I Can't Get No Satisfaction
I Can’t Get No Satisfaction
Icebreaker: What kind of comfort food do you enjoy?
Ecclesiastes 2
I. Pleasures Are Meaningless
1 I said to myself, “Come now, I will test you with pleasure to find out what is good.” But that also proved to be meaningless. 2 “Laughter,” I said, “is madness. And what does pleasure accomplish?” 3 I tried cheering myself with wine, and embracing folly—my mind still guiding me with wisdom. I wanted to see what was good for people to do under the heavens during the few days of their lives.
4 I undertook great projects: I built houses for myself and planted vineyards. 5 I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. 6 I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees. 7 I bought male and female slaves and had other slaves who were born in my house. I also owned more herds and flocks than anyone in Jerusalem before me. 8 I amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I acquired male and female singers, and a harem as well—the delights of a man’s heart. 9 I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me.
10 I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil. 11 Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.
1.What experiment is Solomon undertaking? (2:1,4,10) What is Solomon’s conclusion? (2:1, 2:11)
2. What are the three areas we likely pursue in life? (2:1-3, 2:4-9, 2:10) What are the differences between these three areas?
3. What has your experience been like in these 3 areas?
4. In what phase of life (youth, young adulthood, middle age, senior) do we find ourselves pursuing these areas?
5. How does our phase of life effect or impact our priorities?
6. What are you trying to satisfy currently?
II. Wisdom and Folly Are Meaningless
12 Then I turned my thoughts to consider wisdom, and also madness and folly. What more can the king’s successor do than what has already been done? 13 I saw that wisdom is better than folly, just as light is better than darkness. 14 The wise have eyes in their heads, while the fool walks in the darkness; but I came to realize that the same fate overtakes them both.
15 Then I said to myself, “The fate of the fool will overtake me also. What then do I gain by being wise?” I said to myself, “This too is meaningless.” 16 For the wise, like the fool, will not be long remembered; the days have already come when both have been forgotten. Like the fool, the wise too must die!
Proverbs: 9:10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
7. Why does the pursuit of wisdom have the same fate as madness and folly? (2:14-16)
8. How is the wisdom in Ecclesiastes 2:12-16 different than Proverbs 9:10?
9. What does pursuing wisdom that begins with the fear of the Lord look like?
III. Toil Is Meaningless
17 So I hated life, because the work that is done under the sun was grievous to me. All of it is meaningless, a chasing after the wind. 18 I hated all the things I had toiled for under the sun, because I must leave them to the one who comes after me. 19 And who knows whether that person will be wise or foolish? Yet they will have control over all the fruit of my toil into which I have poured my effort and skill under the sun. This too is meaningless. 20 So my heart began to despair over all my toilsome labor under the sun. 21 For a person may labor with wisdom, knowledge and skill, and then they must leave all they own to another who has not toiled for it. This too is meaningless and a great misfortune. 22 What do people get for all the toil and anxious striving with which they labor under the sun? 23 All their days their work is grief and pain; even at night their minds do not rest. This too is meaningless.
24 A person can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own toil. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, 25 or without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? 26 To the person who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.
Colossians 3:23-24, 23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 Since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
10. Why was Solomon upset about the work done under the sun? What does under the sun mean? How have you been upset in the same way? (2:17-23)
11. What does God contribute to the life of the person who pleases Him through faith in Jesus Christ? (2:26)
12. How has faith in Jesus answered Solomon’s concerns? How does faith in Christ help us to find meaning in life?
Whatever- Think and React
WHATEVER- THINK AND REACT
ICEBREAKER: Tell about a time that you encountered a person who only thought the best in you? Tell how that made you feel, about yourself and about that other person?
Here’s why you need this sermon: Input determines output. What you think determines how you will react.
1.What is it about thinking that drives our attitude? How can we begin to shape our thinking?
2. How can we have peace and the right attitude toward others?
2 Corinthians 4:17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.
3. How much do our expectations effect our attitude? What should our expectations be? (1 Peter 4:1, Ephesians 4:22-24)
1 Peter 4:1 Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin.
Ephesians 4:22-24 22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
4. How can we intentionally focus on the eternal in our daily life?
Ecclesiastes 3:11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
5. What effect do you believe that your upbringing has on your thought processes?
6. How easy is it to change this effect? What thoughts do you wish to build in your children?
7. How much do you focus on negative thoughts and circumstances? Is this a problem for you?
8. How would Marriage relationships change, Parent/Child relationships or Neighbors and Coworkers' relationships change if we held our thoughts to the standard of Philippians 4:8-9?
Philippians 4:8-9. (Great verses to memorize!) 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
9. What keeps us from holding on to this standard? What are the obstacles that you must overcome to bring your thoughts into this standard?
10. How does what Paul is saying differ from, “Think about happy things?”
11. How does the conscious effort the Apostle Paul speaks of differ from the “Power of Positive Thinking” philosophy, from Norman Vincent Peale?
12. What should be the standard of our thought life?
John 13:34-35 34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.
1 Corinthians 10:31 So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
Philippians 1:27-28 27 Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit,[a] striving together as one for the faith of the gospel 28 without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God.
We take charge of our attitude, according to Charles Swindoll, by taking control of our thinking/thought.
Attitude
Charles Swindoll
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me, is more important than facts.
It is more important than the past, than education, than
money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than
what other people think or say or do. It is more important than
appearance, giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company...a church...a home.
The remarkable thing is, we have a choice every day,
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have,
and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90%
how I react to it.
And so it is with you...we are in charge of our attitudes.
The Meaning and Importance of Water Baptism
The Meaning and Importance of Water Baptism
Icebreaker: Tell about your favorite picture and how it came to be your favorite.
1.What is the basic meaning of the word “baptize”?
From sermon: Baptism = Greek = baptizo = dunk, plunge, immerse, dip.
2. Why do you think John baptized?
John 1:29–31 (NIV) 29 The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world! 30 This is the one I meant when I said, ‘A man who comes after me has surpassed me because he was before me.’ 31 I myself did not know him, but the reason I came baptizing with water was that he might be revealed to Israel.”
Acts 19:4(NIV) 4 Paul said, “John’s baptism was a baptism of repentance. He told the people to believe in the one coming after him, that is, in Jesus.”
3. Why do you think Jesus was baptized?
Pastor’s comment: Jesus was baptized. Jesus being God did not need to be saved. So baptism clearly does not save but is the visible “Hey everyone, watch this demonstration of what God has done inside me!”
Matthew 3:13 13 Then Jesus came from Galilee to the Jordan to be baptized by John. 14 But John tried to deter him, saying, “I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?” 15 Jesus replied, “Let it be so now; it is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness.” Then John consented.
4. When Jesus was baptized, in what ways did God show his approval and purpose?
Luke 3:21-22 When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too. And as he was praying, heaven was opened 22and the Holy Spirit descended on him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven: "You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased."
John 1:29-34 29 The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world! 30 This is the one I meant when I said, ‘A man who comes after me has surpassed me because he was before me.’ 31 I myself did not know him, but the reason I came baptizing with water was that he might be revealed to Israel.”32 Then John gave this testimony: “I saw the Spirit come down from heaven as a dove and remain on him. 33 And I myself did not know him, but the one who sent me to baptize with water told me, ‘The man on whom you see the Spirit come down and remain is the one who will baptize with the Holy Spirit.’ 34 I have seen and I testify that this is God’s Chosen One.”
5. How does the Great Commission instruct disciples to be baptized? If you believe Jesus is your Lord, is baptism meant to be an option that we can choose or not choose? Why?
Matthew 28:19-20 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
6. How is baptism a symbol of Christ’s death and resurrection?
Romans 6:3-4 Or don't you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.
7. What is the proper pattern for baptism and belief? Would it be proper to baptize someone before they believe?
Acts 8:36–38 (NIV) 36 As they traveled along the road, they came to some water and the eunuch said, “Look, here is water. What can stand in the way of my being baptized?” 38 And he gave orders to stop the chariot. Then both Philip and the eunuch went down into the water and Philip baptized him.
Acts 10:44–48 (NIV) 44 While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message. 45 The circumcised believers who had come with Peter were astonished that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on Gentiles. 46 For they heard them speaking in tongues and praising God. Then Peter said, 47 “Surely no one can stand in the way of their being baptized with water. They have received the Holy Spirit just as we have.” 48 So he ordered that they be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked Peter to stay with them for a few days.
Mark 16:16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.
8. Why do you think Jesus gave us the command to be baptized? What does baptism demonstrate to the world at large?
9. What should be the reason people are willing to be baptized?
10. How does the refusal or neglect of some to be baptized have an effect on the church?
11. Is a baptism valid before God when the person has not yet come to faith? What do you think such a person should do in the event that they do come to faith?
12. What is an experience of baptism you have had?
Should I get baptized? Things to consider:
- I was baptized as a baby. There are no examples of baby baptism and all baptism are after a profession of faith. You should be baptized.
- I was sprinkled after a profession of faith. You do not need to be baptized. Although we immerse for the reasons given, it is the profession of faith and identification with Christ that matters.
- I was baptized, but now realize it was not as an honest profession of faith and allegiance to Jesus Christ. Sometimes children are baptized more because the family expects it rather than an honest faith. You should be baptized.
- I have believed in Jesus’s saving work on the cross as my Lord and Savior, but have not been baptized yet. You should be baptized.
Making A Masterpiece 2
Making a Masterpiece 2
Icebreaker: In your childhood, what were your best or good friends like?
Introduction: Making a Masterpiece 1, was about our identity as a Child of God. Making a Masterpiece 2 is about our identity as a friend with God. When we become a Christ-follower, we make our friendship with Jesus our first priority. We were first and foremost created for friendship with God. Out of it, we can help make all our other friendships work. All friendships are founded on love.
Discussion:
The Christ-following Life is a Relational Life
When Jesus was asked what is the most important of all commands,
Matthew 22:37-40 (NLT) 37 Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. 40 The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”
I Corinthians 13:4-7 (NLT) 4Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
1.Why do you think all the commands, and the whole story of following God is driven by love – loving God and then loving people?
2. What is love as God intended? (I Corinthians 13:4-7)
History of Friendship with God
Genesis 1:27 (NLT) So, God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them male and female he created them.
3. For what purpose do you think God created Adam and Eve in His own image?
Romans 5:12-13 (NLT) 12When Adam sinned, sin entered the world. Adam’s sin brought death, so death spread to everyone, for everyone sinned. 13Yes, people sinned even before the law was given. But it was not counted as sin because there was not yet any law to break.
4. What was broken and how was it broken?
5. How is this brokenness manifested in us today?
Jesus Changed Everything
Romans 5:6-11 (NLT) 6When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. 7Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. 8But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. 9And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. 10For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. 11So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God.
Matthew 27:50-51 And when Jesus had cried out again in a loud voice, he gave up his spirit. At that moment the curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. (Access to God)
John 15:14-15 14You are my friends if you do what I command. 15I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends, since I have told you everything the Father told me.
Note: And the word for “friend” in the original language is not just a casual acquaintance. It’s the word used for a best man at a wedding. or a king’s inner circle.
6. How did God restore what was broken?
7. What are the benefits of friendship with Jesus Christ?
8. How is being a friend of Christ more significant than just being his servant? (John 15:14-15)
9. How is our friendship with Christ different from other world views?
10. How do we develop and maintain friendship with Jesus Christ? (John 15:9-10)
John 15:9–10 (NLT) 9 “I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. 10 When you obey my commandments, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father’s commandments and remain in his love.
What Kind of Friend Do We Have in Jesus?
- Forgiving friend
Ephesians 1:7 (NLT) He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins
11. How has Christ's forgiveness of you transformed your life? What is an appropriate response? (Refer to hymn below)
- Loyal Friend
Romans 5:9-10 (NLT) “And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son.”
John 13:34-35 34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
12. How has Christ's loyal friendship strengthened your friendships with others?
- Eternal Friend
Romans 5:18, 21(NLT) “Yes, Adam’s one sin brings condemnation for everyone, but Christ’s one act of righteousness brings a right relationship with God and new life for everyone… now God’s wonderful grace rules instead, giving us right standing with God and resulting in eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
13. What fear can you cast out knowing Christ is your eternal friend? How does knowing Christ as our eternal friend help us to deal with the uncertainties of life?
Read and Reflect
What a Friend We Have in Jesus (Hymn)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzYqRgh06_k
What a friend we have in Jesus
All our sins and griefs to bear
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer
Oh, what peace we often forfeit
Oh, what needless pain we bear
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer
Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged
Take it to the Lord in prayer
Can we find a friend so faithful
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness
Take it to the Lord in prayer
Making a Masterpiece- Ephesians 2:4-13
Making a Masterpiece – Ephesians 2:4-13
Ice Breaker: Tell about a memorable or special gift you received.
Main Idea: It is God who gives us our identity. We do not earn it. It is a gift of God that no one can take away from us.
Our primary identity is NOT built on something we DO, but on something that’s already been DONE.
Ephesians 2:4–10 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. 8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—9 not by works, so that no one can boast. 10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
1.Why does God save us? (4-5,7,8,10)
2. What does it mean to be saved? What do we do to become saved? Please explain. (8,9)
3. According to 2 Corinthians 5:17, What is our new identity?
2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
4. How does building our identity on what Christ has already done look different than building our identity on something we do?
It’s easy to lose sight of our primary identity and not even notice.
From Pastor Brian: Sometimes we allow our core identity to be based on so many other things!! We get tripped up on other identity markers, Job, Relationships, Bank accounts, Working harder, Possessions, Appearance, Achievements, Titles.
5. What are the temporary identities of life that, if we are not careful, we can prioritize over God? How does busyness and distractedness keep us from staying focused on our true identity? (Luke 21:34-36; Mark 4:18-19)
Luke 21:34–36 “Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness and the anxieties of life, and that day will close on you suddenly like a trap. 35 For it will come on all those who live on the face of the whole earth. 36 Be always on the watch, and pray that you may be able to escape all that is about to happen, and that you may be able to stand before the Son of Man.”
Mark 4:18–19 Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; 19 but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful.
Other labels of identity put us in competition with each other.
6. Why do you think we should not boast about our salvation? (Jeremiah 9:23-24)
Jeremiah 9:23–24 This is what the LORD says: “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, 24 but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the LORD, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,” declares the LORD.
7. How does living by temporary labels of identity create a competition and comparison with others? (Romans 12:3,16)
Romans 12:3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.
Romans 12:16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
Truths about our identity
8. What is our identity in Christ? (Ephesians 2:6,10,19-20; John 1:12-13; John 5:14; 1 Peter 2:9; Colossians 1:12-14)
Ephesians 2:19–20 Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, 20 built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone.
John 1:12–13 Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— 13 children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.
John 5:14 “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
1 Peter 2:9 But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.
Colossians 1:12–14 and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light. 13 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
9. How could focusing on our identity in Christ keep us from being distracted inappropriately from the cares this world?
10. How could focusing on our identity in Christ keep us from pride or shame? (1 Corinthians 12:21-27)
1 Corinthians 12:21–27 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” 22 On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, 24 while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25 so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. 26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.
11. How can seeing our identity as God's workmanship (masterpiece) guide us toward living out God's plan for our lives? (Ephesians 2:10)
Ephesians 2:10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
For believers, He sees us through the work of the cross!
12. What can be done to refocus ourselves when we discover that our primary identity is not centered on what we do instead on what Christ did on the cross and who we are in Christ? (Romans 6:6-8, Ephesians 4:1-7)
Romans 6:6–8 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin—7 because anyone who has died has been set free from sin. 8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him.
Ephesians 4:1–7 As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. 2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. 4 There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. 7 But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it.
*God loves you just the way you are, but He loves you too much to leave you there!
"You are God's Favored/Favorite" God's Story from Creation to New Creation
“You are God’s Favored/Favorite”
God’s Story from CREATION to NEW CREATION
Sara Wildermuth
Ice Breaker: What does your family like to do to fill up spare time?
In Genesis 1 and 2, our loving God created a perfect world and every living thing in it. He made humanity in His image and likeness to have a loving relationship with Him. But in Chapter 3 of Genesis, the first couple, Adam and Eve, questioned God’s authority as the response to the serpent’s deceitful question, “Did God really say?" They rejected God’s Word and Him as the source of life. This resulted in sin, darkness and separation from God. (Genesis 3:1-6)
Genesis 3:1–6 1Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” 2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’ ” 4 “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.
1. How do we hear this voice of deception today? What is the result of rejecting God and his Word for us today? (Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23a)
Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Romans 6:23a For the wages of sin is death,
Our God is a relational God. This relationship was broken when Adam and Eve rebelled against God in the garden of Eden. Immediately God began working out his big picture to restore this relationship.
Genesis 3:15 And I will put enmity (hostility) between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers (her Seed); he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”
2. What do you think is the meaning of this verse, and what does it indicate about the “Big Picture” of God’s plan? (Hebrews 2:14-15, Colossians 2:15, 1 John 3:8)
Hebrews 2:14–15 14Since the children have flesh and blood, he too shared in their humanity so that by his death he might break the power of him who holds the power of death—that is, the devil—15 and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death.
Colossians 2:15 And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.
1 John 3:8 The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.
Luke 1:26-45 26 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary.28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” 29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.” 34 “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” 35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.” 38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.
From the Sermon: We may think God favored Mary because of something she had done to earn it. But God’s grace is a GIFT. He extends His Favor. You’re God’s favorite.
3. How has God shown his favor (grace) to us? (Colossians 1:13-14, Romans 3:24-26)
Colossians 1:13–14 13 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
Romans 3:24–26 24 and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. 25 God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood—to be received by faith. He did this to demonstrate his righteousness, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished—26 he did it to demonstrate his righteousness at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.
4. Mary’s reaction to the news brought by the angel was to say, “I am the Lord’s servant, may your word to me be fulfilled.” How is Mary’s response different than Adam and Eve’s response to God’s Word?
5. How can we cultivate in ourselves this spirit of obedience and willing cooperation with God’s plan, when we do not see the big picture? (2 Corinthians 5:7)
2 Corinthians 5:7 For we live by faith, not by sight.
6. What do you think Deuteronomy 29:29 and 1 Corinthians 13:12 indicate about our ability to see the big picture of God?
Deuteronomy 29:29 The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law.
1 Corinthians 13:12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
7. Sara spoke of the pieces of a puzzle and lack of ability to see the big picture. In puzzles, the box top helps us see the big picture. How does the Gospel and the Bible help us to see God’s Big Picture? How do they help us see how we fit into the Big Picture of God?
8. Sara quoted Luke 2:19,51, “Mary treasured up these things in her heart” …. Why do you suppose Mary did this; what do you suppose was her purpose?
9. What are God moments that you are treasuring up in your heart? What do they indicate for the Big Picture of God?
10. What are you doing to improve your ability to share the gospel (God’s Big Picture) with others? (1 Peter 3:15)
1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
11. In Luke 1:34 Mary asked the angel, “how could this be?” What are the questions you have for God regarding what He is doing in your life? In faith, how can we look for the answers to these questions?
12. God was able to use Mary because she was willing to step out in faith and trust God when His plan for her was revealed. How can we be ready to be used by God when He reveals His next step of faith for us?
Law of Continuance- Joseph -What If You Were Confident That God Was With You?
Law of Continuance - Joseph
What if you were confident that God was with you?
Icebreaker: Can you remember a good event that was so vivid that it burned its way into your mind permanently?
Sermon Point 1: JOSEPH DID EXACTLY WHAT ANYONE WOULD DO WHEN YOU ARE CONFIDENT THAT GOD IS WITH YOU.
Genesis 39:1-5 1 Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt. Potiphar, an Egyptian who was one of Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard, bought him from the Ishmaelites who had taken him there. 2 The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. 3 When his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, 4 Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned. 5 From the time he put him in charge of his household and of all that he owned, the Lord blessed the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph.
1.What happened to the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph? (v. 5)
2. What in the Genesis passage shows that God is not done with Joseph, that indeed his hand of restoration will yet work? How is Joseph’s life both good and bad?
3. How is the Christian life generally reflective of Romans 8:28? (the law of continuance)
Romans 8:28 reminds us: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
4. Can you remember a dark time of your life when you became aware that God was in charge after all?
Genesis 39:6-10 6 Now Joseph was well-built and handsome, 7 and after a while his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said, “Come to bed with me!” 8 But he refused. “With me in charge,” he told her, “my master does not concern himself with anything in the house; everything he owns he has entrusted to my care. 9 No one is greater in this house than I am. My master has withheld nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” 10 And though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be with her.
5. What are the four things Joseph explains to his master’s wife?
6. How does this behavior reflect a life of faith in God?
7. Given that Joseph’s objection had no effect on Potipher’s wife, can you describe a time when you stood for principles only to see others discount them?
Genesis 39:20-22 20 But while Joseph was there in the prison, 21 the Lord was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden. 22 So the warden put Joseph in charge of all those held in the prison, and he was made responsible for all that was done there.
Genesis 40:5 each of the two men—the cupbearer and the baker of the king of Egypt, who were being held in prison—had a dream the same night, and each dream had a meaning of its own.
Genesis 40:8 “We both had dreams,” they answered, “but there is no one to interpret them.” Then Joseph said to them, “Do not interpretations belong to God? Tell me your dreams.”
Genesis 40:12–14 (Cupbearer’s interpretation) 12 “This is what it means,” Joseph said to him. “The three branches are three days. 13 Within three days Pharaoh will lift up your head and restore you to your position, and you will put Pharaoh’s cup in his hand, just as you used to do when you were his cupbearer. 14 But when all goes well with you, remember me and show me kindness; mention me to Pharaoh and get me out of this prison.”
Genesis 40:23 The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.
8. Note that for the third time, we are told that “the Lord was with him” (v. 2,3,21). What reasons were there for him to be encouraged or discouraged? What made Joseph rise above his discouraging events?
9. How ought this encourage us when we go through troublesome times? Or those times when it seems as if God is not there? (Psalm 23:4)
Psalms 23:4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Sermon Point 2: GOD WAS SILENT, BUT HE WAS NOT ABSENT.
Genesis 41:1,8-9,14-16 1When two full years had passed, Pharaoh had a dream: ...8 In the morning his mind was troubled, so he sent for all the magicians and wise men of Egypt. Pharaoh told them his dreams, but no one could interpret them for him. 9 Then the chief cupbearer said to Pharaoh, “Today I am reminded of my shortcomings.... 14 So Pharaoh sent for Joseph, and he was quickly brought from the dungeon. When he had shaved and changed his clothes, he came before Pharaoh. 15 Pharaoh said to Joseph, “I had a dream, and no one can interpret it. But I have heard it said of you that when you hear a dream you can interpret it.” 16 “I cannot do it,” Joseph replied to Pharaoh, “but God will give Pharaoh the answer he desires.”
Genesis 41:28-38 28 “It is just as I said to Pharaoh: God has shown Pharaoh what he is about to do. 29 Seven years of great abundance are coming throughout the land of Egypt, 30 but seven years of famine will follow them. Then all the abundance in Egypt will be forgotten, and the famine will ravage the land. 31 The abundance in the land will not be remembered, because the famine that follows it will be so severe. 32 The reason the dream was given to Pharaoh in two forms is that the matter has been firmly decided by God, and God will do it soon.33 “And now let Pharaoh look for a discerning and wise man and put him in charge of the land of Egypt. 34 Let Pharaoh appoint commissioners over the land to take a fifth of the harvest of Egypt during the seven years of abundance. 35 They should collect all the food of these good years that are coming and store up the grain under the authority of Pharaoh, to be kept in the cities for food. 36 This food should be held in reserve for the country, to be used during the seven years of famine that will come upon Egypt, so that the country may not be ruined by the famine.”37 The plan seemed good to Pharaoh and to all his officials. 38 So Pharaoh asked them, “Can we find anyone like this man, one in whom is the spirit of God?”
Genesis 41:41So Pharaoh said to Joseph, “I hereby put you in charge of the whole land of Egypt.”
10. Through all his experiences, Joseph had lessons to learn. How did God prepare him to be a leader in Egypt? (Hint: leadership skills, dependence on God, etc.)
11. How has God used your early experiences in life to prepare you for later times? (law of continuance)
Note: Joseph’s brothers came to Egypt to buy food from Pharoah and were surprised to realize that Joseph was now in charge. When they appeared concerned about retaliation, Joseph reassured them twice in Genesis 45:5 and 50:20.
Genesis 45:5 And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you.
Genesis 50:20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
12. How were the problems similar with David, Elijah, and Joseph? How did God show himself faithful to each?
13. How does the life of Joseph call upon us to show patience for the promises of God?
Pastor Dave says: His law of continuance overwrites the evil, to fit His plan and for our good. What if you believed that?
Law of Continuance-Your Life is Your Leadership-2 Timothy 3:10-17
Your Life is Your Leadership, 2 Timothy 3:10-17
Icebreaker: Who are the people who have influenced your life? What were they like?
Introduction: Leadership is using influence to move people toward a common goal. Paul’s life was all about leadership. Leadership supports the Law of Continuance. The big idea is that God uses your past to prepare you in the present for your future. God used Paul’s past experiences and training, his present circumstances and character, to shape future generations of faith. This process repeats from one generation to another, 2 Timothy 2:2.
Discussion Questions:
- Based on your knowledge, why do you think Apostle Paul was such a great leader?
2. What do you think was on Paul’s mind when he told Timothy that “you, however, know all about my teaching." in 2 Timothy 3:10-11? Remember this was Paul’s last epistle.
Text: 2 Timothy 3:10-17, 10You, however, know all about my teaching, my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, 11persecutions, sufferings—what kinds of things happened to me in Antioch, Iconium and Lystra, the persecutions I endured. Yet the Lord rescued me from all of them. 12In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted, 13while evildoers and impostors will go from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived. 14But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 15and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 16All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”
2 Timothy 4:6 For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time for my departure is near.
3. What was Paul trying to teach Timothy when Paul said “my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, persecutions, sufferings? (2 Timothy 3:10-11) (Scan Acts 13,14)
4. Why did Paul point out suffering in verses 12-13? (2 Timothy 3:12)
5. Why did the Holy Spirit inspire Paul to write in verse 14, “continue in what you have learned” for Timothy and for us today? (Romans 5:3-5)
6. What does “know those from whom you learned it” imply? Why does mentoring require a close relationship?
7. What are the benefits of learning scriptures at an early age and from more than one person? (2 Timothy 1:5, 2 Timothy 3:15)
8. What did Timothy learn from his mentors’ teachings and life? (2 Timothy 3:15-17)
9. What do you think is life mentorship? and How is it different than skill training?
From Pastor Zach’s Sermon: How do you find a mentor? What do you look for? Experience—life itself—proves our mentors. Consider their pattern of life and the results of their life. Consider their teaching. Consider their purpose. Consider their faith. Consider their patience/long-suffering/resilience. Consider their endurance. Consider people who have made it through persecution and storms—those with staying power. Consider those who have suffered and made it through—determining to suffer in service to others.
Note: Sometimes we may not feel like we meet this standard, but mentors learn in the process as well. Take the leap to mentor others and God will work with what you have to offer.
10. What are the proper outcomes of those who are mentored in accordance with sound doctrines? (2 Timothy 3:17, 2:21)
2 Timothy 2:21 Those who cleanse themselves from the latter will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.
11. What do you look for in a mentor? (2 Timothy 3:10-13, Psalm 78:3,4)
Psalm 78:3,4 I will utter hidden things, things from of old— 3 things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. 4 We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, his power, and the wonders he has done.
12. Why don’t life mentors have a retirement age? (Psalm 92:12-15)
Psalm 92:12-15 The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The Lord is upright; he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him.”
13. Who are the Pauls and Timothys in your life? How do we go about finding them?
14. What are your next steps to being a Paul and a Timothy?
15. What preparation do you need if you don’t feel ready regardless of age?
16. Who will be the spiritual children and grandchildren you will leave behind?
The only purpose worth giving our lives for is leading self and others towards Christ. Pastor Zach Flaig
The Law of Continuance - Elijah
The Law of Continuance - Elijah
Ice Breaker: How do you refresh yourself after being exhausted from stressful events or life circumstances?
Note: The first seven questions provide depth and context to the passage covered in the sermon. You may cover the context or skip to 1 Kings 19 and begin with question 7 if your group is familiar with the events on Mount Carmel.
Read 1 Kings 16:29-33, 17:1
1 Kings 16:29–33 (NIV) 29 In the thirty-eighth year of Asa king of Judah, Ahab son of Omri became king of Israel, and he reigned in Samaria over Israel twenty-two years. 30 Ahab son of Omri did more evil in the eyes of the Lord than any of those before him. 31 He not only considered it trivial to commit the sins of Jeroboam son of Nebat, but he also married Jezebel daughter of Ethbaal king of the Sidonians, and began to serve Baal and worship him. 32 He set up an altar for Baal in the temple of Baal that he built in Samaria. 33 Ahab also made an Asherah pole and did more to arouse the anger of the Lord, the God of Israel, than did all the kings of Israel before him.
17:1 Now Elijah the Tishbite, from Tishbe in Gilead, said to Ahab, “As the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, whom I serve, there will be neither dew nor rain in the next few years except at my word.”
1.What do we learn about King Ahab, Jezebel, the Lord, and Elijah? What is the judgment of the Lord as spoken by Elijah? (Deuteronomy 11:16-17)
Deuteronomy 11:16–17 (NIV) 16 Be careful, or you will be enticed to turn away and worship other gods and bow down to them. 17 Then the LORD’s anger will burn against you, and he will shut up the heavens so that it will not rain and the ground will yield no produce, and you will soon perish from the good land the LORD is giving you.
Read 1 Kings 18:1-6
1 Kings 18:1–6 (NIV) 1 After a long time, in the third year, the word of the Lord came to Elijah: “Go and present yourself to Ahab, and I will send rain on the land.” 2 So Elijah went to present himself to Ahab. Now the famine was severe in Samaria, 3 and Ahab had summoned Obadiah, his palace administrator. (Obadiah was a devout believer in the Lord. 4 While Jezebel was killing off the Lord’s prophets, Obadiah had taken a hundred prophets and hidden them in two caves, fifty in each, and had supplied them with food and water.) 5 Ahab had said to Obadiah, “Go through the land to all the springs and valleys. Maybe we can find some grass to keep the horses and mules alive so we will not have to kill any of our animals.” 6 So they divided the land they were to cover, Ahab going in one direction and Obadiah in another.
2. How long has the drought persisted and what was the result? What are King Ahab, Jezebel, the Lord, and Elijah doing at this point?
Read 1 Kings 18:16-22
1 Kings 18:16–22 (NIV) 16 So Obadiah went to meet Ahab and told him, and Ahab went to meet Elijah. 17 When he saw Elijah, he said to him, “Is that you, you troubler of Israel?” 18 “I have not made trouble for Israel,” Elijah replied. “But you and your father’s family have. You have abandoned the Lord’s commands and have followed the Baals. 19 Now summon the people from all over Israel to meet me on Mount Carmel. And bring the four hundred and fifty prophets of Baal and the four hundred prophets of Asherah, who eat at Jezebel’s table.” 20 So Ahab sent word throughout all Israel and assembled the prophets on Mount Carmel. 21 Elijah went before the people and said, “How long will you waver between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him; but if Baal is God, follow him.” But the people said nothing. 22 Then Elijah said to them, “I am the only one of the Lord’s prophets left, but Baal has four hundred and fifty prophets.
3. What was Elijah’s challenge to the people? How did the people respond? In what way does the world try to waver between two (or more) opinions when it comes to God?
Summary of 1 Kings 18:23-38
Elijah then suggested a challenge to see which god was the true God, Baal or the Lord. The 450 prophets of Baal were to choose from two bulls which one they will cut into pieces and put on wood for a fire. Elijah would do the same. Each were to call on their god to send fire and burn up the meat. The one that sends down fire will be the true God.
The 450 prophets went first and called on the name of their god from morning to noon. When nothing happened Elijah began taunting them. So they began shouting louder and slashing themselves with swords and spears. Still no response.
Then Elijah called all the people assembled to help him rebuild the torn down alter of the Lord. He dug a trench around the altar and put meat on the wood. He then had the people pour four large jars of water over the wood and the offering. He had them do it three times. At the time of the sacrifice, Elijah prayed:
“Lord, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel, let it be known today that you are God in Israel and that I am your servant and have done all these things at your command. Answer me, Lord, answer me, so these people will know that you, Lord, are God, and that you are turning their hearts back again.”
38Then the fire of the LORD fell and burned up the sacrifice, the wood, the stones and the soil, and also licked up the water in the trench.
4. In what way does God want to use us to demonstrate that He is Lord? How should we be praying for our nation, fellow Christians, and the world?
5. What was the result of this demonstration of God’s power at the altar?
1 Kings 18:39–41(NIV) 39 When all the people saw this, they fell prostrate and cried, “The Lord—he is God! The Lord—he is God!” 40 Then Elijah commanded them, “Seize the prophets of Baal. Don’t let anyone get away!” They seized them, and Elijah had them brought down to the Kishon Valley and slaughtered there. 41 And Elijah said to Ahab, “Go, eat and drink, for there is the sound of a heavy rain.”
6. How did the people respond to this demonstration? How do you think Elijah felt at this moment?
Read 1 Kings 19:1-10
1 Kings 19:1–10 (NIV) 1Now Ahab told Jezebel everything Elijah had done and how he had killed all the prophets with the sword. 2 So Jezebel sent a messenger to Elijah to say, “May the gods deal with me, be it ever so severely, if by this time tomorrow I do not make your life like that of one of them.” 3 Elijah was afraid and ran for his life. When he came to Beersheba in Judah, he left his servant there, 4 while he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness. He came to a broom bush, sat down under it and prayed that he might die. “I have had enough, Lord,” he said. “Take my life; I am no better than my ancestors.” 5 Then he lay down under the bush and fell asleep. All at once an angel touched him and said, “Get up and eat.” 6 He looked around, and there by his head was some bread baked over hot coals, and a jar of water. He ate and drank and then lay down again. 7 The angel of the Lord came back a second time and touched him and said, “Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you.” 8 So he got up and ate and drank. Strengthened by that food, he traveled forty days and forty nights until he reached Horeb, the mountain of God. 9 There he went into a cave and spent the night. And the word of the Lord came to him: “What are you doing here, Elijah?” 10 He replied, “I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.”
7. What was the response of King Ahab, Jezebel, Elijah and the Lord to the previous events?
8. Why did Elijah travel to Mount Horeb? How do you respond to fear or threats?
9. Why do you think Elijah gave into fear and depression after God had just done an amazing demonstration of His power?
SERMON POINT 1: ANTICIPATE THE LOWS AFTER THE HIGHS and SERMON POINT 2: TAKE CARE OF THE BASICS: FOOD, EXERCISE & REST
10. Tell about a time you experienced a letdown after a success. How can we prepare ourselves ahead of time for the letdowns after success?
11. How is God’s response to Elijah an encouragement for us?
SERMON POINT 3: BEWARE OF THE PITY PARTY
12. How does Elijah’s response to the Lord’s question in 1 Kings 19:9 show that he had become self-focused and had lost a clear perspective? (Recall 1 Kings 18:4, 30, 39 and look forward to 1 Kings 19:18)
13. How does fear keep us from seeing what God is doing in our midst? How does God show up in times of fear?
Read 1 Kings 19:11-18
1 Kings 19:11–18 (NIV) 11 The Lord said, “Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the Lord, for the Lord is about to pass by.” Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper. 13 When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave. Then a voice said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” 14 He replied, “I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, torn down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too.” 15 The Lord said to him, “Go back the way you came, and go to the Desert of Damascus. When you get there, anoint Hazael king over Aram. 16 Also, anoint Jehu son of Nimshi king over Israel, and anoint Elisha son of Shaphat from Abel Meholah to succeed you as prophet. 17 Jehu will put to death any who escape the sword of Hazael, and Elisha will put to death any who escape the sword of Jehu. 18 Yet I reserve seven thousand in Israel—all whose knees have not bowed down to Baal and whose mouths have not kissed him.”
SERMON POINT 5: FIND GOD’S PRESENCE IN THE WORD, NOT THE DRAMATIC CIRCUMSTANCE
14. What does 1 Kings 19:11-13 tell us about the presence of God? What can we do to have clear perspective even in troubling times?
15. God is expanding Elijah’s ministry by having him anoint Hazael king over Aram and Jehu as future king over Israel and Elisha as his apprentice. How did God’s new assignment show Elijah that He has a plan for him and is working his will? How does knowing God has a plan and uses us in its execution encourage you?
16. Why is it important to involve others in the work that God is doing in and through us?
Law of Continuance-David and Goliath 1 Samuel 17:1-51
Law of Continuance – David and Goliath
1 Samuel 17: 1-51
ICE BREAKER: What have you learned from a past experience that helped you later on?
Introduction:
Just as there are physical laws, that govern the physical universe, there are Spiritual Laws, by which God governs the Universe. God is a God of restoration. God declares what He is going to do before He does it. That’s called prophesy. God wants to restore things to their original purpose. Adam was the first man that God created. God created Adam to be his friend, and to be his earthly governor. He put Adam in a place where he would have dominion over the things in this world, but Adam sinned. We all know that. And Adam lost his authority. From that point forward God began this lengthy process of restoring everything that was lost, taken or given away.
1. How has God planned to restore mankind?
A. IDENTIFY FEAR AND DISAPPROVAL
1 Samuel 17:1–16 (NIV) 1 Now the Philistines gathered their forces for war and assembled at Sokoh in Judah. They pitched camp at Ephes Dammim, between Sokoh and Azekah. 2 Saul and the Israelites assembled and camped in the Valley of Elah and drew up their battle line to meet the Philistines. 3 The Philistines occupied one hill and the Israelites another, with the valley between them. 4 A champion named Goliath, who was from Gath, came out of the Philistine camp. His height was six cubits and a span. 5 He had a bronze helmet on his head and wore a coat of scale armor of bronze weighing five thousand shekels; 6 on his legs he wore bronze greaves, and a bronze javelin was slung on his back. 7 His spear shaft was like a weaver’s rod, and its iron point weighed six hundred shekels. His shield bearer went ahead of him. 8 Goliath stood and shouted to the ranks of Israel, “Why do you come out and line up for battle? Am I not a Philistine, and are you not the servants of Saul? Choose a man and have him come down to me. 9 If he is able to fight and kill me, we will become your subjects; but if I overcome him and kill him, you will become our subjects and serve us.” 10 Then the Philistine said, “This day I defy the armies of Israel! Give me a man and let us fight each other.” 11 On hearing the Philistine’s words, Saul and all the Israelites were dismayed and terrified. 12 Now David was the son of an Ephrathite named Jesse, who was from Bethlehem in Judah. Jesse had eight sons, and in Saul’s time he was very old. 13 Jesse’s three oldest sons had followed Saul to the war: The firstborn was Eliab; the second, Abinadab; and the third, Shammah. 14 David was the youngest. The three oldest followed Saul, 15 but David went back and forth from Saul to tend his father’s sheep at Bethlehem. 16 For forty days the Philistine came forward every morning and evening and took his stand.
2. What is the significance of Goliath’s description in 1 Samuel 17:4-7?
3. As Goliath was taunting the army of Israel, what were the people focusing on? What should they have been focusing on?
4. Can you describe a time when you were focused on the size of the problem, instead of the size of our God?
5. Pastor Dave said that Saul should have killed Goliath. Do you agree? Why should Saul have been the one to kill Goliath?
6. Why was Saul not capable of fighting Goliath? (v. 11) What does this indicate about the condition of Saul’s heart?
7. Pastor Dave said, “Everyday Saul and his army were content to dress up, line up and stay put”. How can we overcome fear and take action against the giants we face in life?
8. How do you suppose Israel would have acted differently, had Saul found his confidence in God and defeated Goliath? (Saul as King=1 Samuel 17:11, David as King=1 Chronicles 20:4-8)
1 Chronicles 20:4–8 (NIV) 4 In the course of time, war broke out with the Philistines, at Gezer. At that time Sibbekai the Hushathite killed Sippai, one of the descendants of the Rephaites, and the Philistines were subjugated. 5 In another battle with the Philistines, Elhanan son of Jair killed Lahmi the brother of Goliath the Gittite, who had a spear with a shaft like a weaver’s rod. 6 In still another battle, which took place at Gath, there was a huge man with six fingers on each hand and six toes on each foot—twenty-four in all. He also was descended from Rapha. 7 When he taunted Israel, Jonathan son of Shimea, David’s brother, killed him. 8 These were descendants of Rapha in Gath, and they fell at the hands of David and his men.
9. What do you suppose is the point of showing that Goliath’s taunting went on day after day, morning and evening, for forty days? (v. 16) What do you think that Saul and the army should have been doing in those forty days?
1 Samuel 17:23–28 (NIV) 23 As he was talking with them, Goliath, the Philistine champion from Gath, stepped out from his lines and shouted his usual defiance, and David heard it. 24 Whenever the Israelites saw the man, they all fled from him in great fear. 25 Now the Israelites had been saying, “Do you see how this man keeps coming out? He comes out to defy Israel. The king will give great wealth to the man who kills him. He will also give him his daughter in marriage and will exempt his family from taxes in Israel.” 26 David asked the men standing near him, “What will be done for the man who kills this Philistine and removes this disgrace from Israel? Who is this uncircumcised Philistine that he should defy the armies of the living God?” 27 They repeated to him what they had been saying and told him, “This is what will be done for the man who kills him.” 28 When Eliab, David’s oldest brother, heard him speaking with the men, he burned with anger at him and asked, “Why have you come down here? And with whom did you leave those few sheep in the wilderness? I know how conceited you are and how wicked your heart is; you came down only to watch the battle.”
10. How would you compare Eliab’s reaction with David’s reaction? What do you think Eliab was feeling after forty days of taunting by Goliath?
1 Samuel 17:32 -33 32 David said to Saul, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.”33 Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth.”
11. David was able to fight and kill Goliath, being a young man, but Saul as an experienced soldier was too afraid to fight and defeat Goliath. What does this indicate about spiritual preparation, and the way David used his time as a shepherd? (Psalms 77:12; 119:15,48,78) What are you doing to prepare yourself spiritually?
Psalm 77:12. I will consider all your works and meditate on all your mighty deeds.”
Psalm 119:15. I meditate on your precepts and consider your ways.
Psalm 119:48 I reach out for your commands, which I love, that I may meditate on your decrees.
Psalm 119:78 May the arrogant be put to shame for wronging me without cause; but I will meditate on your precepts.
B. IF YOU’RE HESITANT, IT’S BECAUSE YOU FORGOT COVENANT
Pastor Dave said, “The unbelievable part of the story is not the size of the giant, but the failure of the people of Israel to remember God’s law of continuance (God’s faithfulness).” The obvious heart problem of Saul and the army is fear. A deeper underlying heart problem is lack of commitment to God and faith in Him, and His plan.
12. Saul had a history of giving into fear, resulting in disobedience. (1 Samuel 13:7-13, 15:23-24). How much do you struggle with fear? What role does fear play in our disobedience? How can commitment to God and our faith help us overcome fear and disobedience?
C. THE LAW OF CONTINUANCE
1 Samuel 17:34-37 34 But David said to Saul, “Your servant has been keeping his father’s sheep. When a lion or a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock, 35 I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. 36 Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God. 37 The Lord who rescued me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will rescue me from the hand of this Philistine.” Saul said to David, “Go, and the Lord be with you.”
13. Do you have any stories of God’s provision and deliverance from your life that you would like to share with your group? Why is it important to write down stories of God’s deliverance in your life?
D. USE THE TOOLS GOD HAS GIVEN ME NOW
1 Samuel 17:40 Then he took his staff in his hand, chose five smooth stones from the stream, put them in the pouch of his shepherd’s bag and, with his sling in his hand, approached the Philistine.
Pastor Dave made the point that David used the tools that he had at hand. These were the tools that David had spent time with developing his skill.
14. How have you taken the time to prepare spiritually, develop the skill of sharing the gospel, develop your testimony, and increase your knowledge of God’s word? (1 Peter 3:15)
E. EXPECT GOD TO CONTINUE HIS WORK IN YOU
1 Samuel 17:45-51 45 David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. 46 This day the Lord will deliver you into my hands, and I’ll strike you down and cut off your head. This very day I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds and the wild animals, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel. 47 All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves; for the battle is the Lord’s, and he will give all of you into our hands.” 48 As the Philistine moved closer to attack him, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet him. 49 Reaching into his bag and taking out a stone, he slung it and struck the Philistine on the forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell facedown on the ground. 50 So David triumphed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone; without a sword in his hand he struck down the Philistine and killed him. 51 David ran and stood over him. He took hold of the Philistine’s sword and drew it from the sheath. After he killed him, he cut off his head with the sword.
15. How is God continuing with you to overcome the challenges in your life?
Here’s why you need this sermon: God is not done with you yet; He uses your past to prepare your future.
Blessed- A Series of the Beatitudes- Faith Over Fear (Revised)
FAITH OVER FEAR
Ice Breaker: Can you think of a time when your parents rewarded your behavior in a substantial way?
Tithing is not giving; it's returning what belongs to God.
1. How much of what you have do you have from God? (Psalm 24:1-2)
2. How can you best acknowledge His provision?
First instance of tithing is found in Abraham:
Genesis 14:18-20 (NIV)
18 Then Melchizedek king of Salem brought out bread and wine. He was priest of God Most High, 19 and he blessed Abram, saying, “Blessed be Abram by God Most High, Creator of heaven and earth.
20 And praise be to God Most High, who delivered your enemies into your hand.” Then Abram gave him a tenth of everything.
A comment on this passage we find in Hebrews 5:9,10.
9 And, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him 10 and was designated by God to be high priest in the order of Melchizedek.
The meaning of the passage is explained in Hebrews 7:1-4. This chapter is the only chapter in the epistles that explicitly teaches about the tithe (tenth).
1This Melchizedek was king of Salem and priest of God Most High. He met Abraham returning from the defeat of the kings and blessed him, 2 and Abraham gave him a tenth of everything. First, the name Melchizedek means “king of righteousness”; then also, “king of Salem” means “king of peace.” 3 Without father or mother, without genealogy, without beginning of days or end of life, resembling the Son of God, he remains a priest forever. 4 Just think how great he was: Even the patriarch Abraham gave him a tenth of the plunder!
3. How is tithing returning what belongs to God?
4. Had Abraham been given the law when he tithed to Melchizadek? How is that important?
5. Why, knowing our High Priest, should we give regularly to our church?
The tithe provides for God's work through His church.
The principle was followed by the New Testament church. Paul mentions faithful giving by the church and pronounces the blessing of God upon it.
2 Corinthians 8:1-7
1And now, brothers and sisters, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. 2 In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. 3 For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, 4 they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord’s people. 5 And they exceeded our expectations: They gave themselves first of all to the Lord, and then by the will of God also to us. 6 So we urged Titus, just as he had earlier made a beginning, to bring also to completion this act of grace on your part. 7 But since you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.
6. How did the giving of the church at Corinth exceed Paul’s expectations?
7. How can we “excel in this grace of giving” regardless of what we have?
The tithe teaches me to put God first.
Please note that Jacob decided to give a tithe long before the Law was given.
Genesis 28:20-22
20 Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will watch over me on this journey I am taking and will give me food to eat and clothes to wear 21 so that I return safely to my father’s household, then the Lord will be my God 22 and this stone that I have set up as a pillar will be God’s house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth.”
8. How is tithing able to teach us to give from our abundance? Why is it so important for us to engage in giving a portion first to God?
9. Jacob makes a vow, asking God for some things. What are those things?
10. How is giving a matter of worship?
The tithe increases my faith in God. It teaches me that 90% with God’s blessing, goes further than 100% without it.
In Philippi, the church was encouraged to give, and in their giving some good things happened.
Philippians 4:10-19
10 I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.14 Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles. 15 Moreover, as you Philippians know, in the early days of your acquaintance with the gospel, when I set out from Macedonia, not one church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving, except you only; 16 for even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid more than once when I was in need. 17 Not that I desire your gifts; what I desire is that more be credited to your account. 18 I have received full payment and have more than enough. I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.
11. Why is Paul rejoicing? What is the history of giving in Philippi?
12. What is the promise that Paul iterates for the giving church? (19) How should that promise apply to Christians who are giving today?
13. How do we cultivate a cheerful heart in in giving? (2 Cor. 9:7, Col. 2:6,7)
2 Corinthians 9:7
7 Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver
Colossians 2:6–7
6 So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, 7 rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.
I will give God my first and my best, so He can bless the rest.
Faith Over Fear
FAITH OVER FEAR
Ice Breaker: Can you think of a time when God rewarded your stepping out in faith (especially in giving) in a substantial way?
Pastor Dave: Tithing is not giving; it's returning what belongs to God.
1.How is tithing returning what belongs to God?
2. How much of what you have do you have from God? How can you best acknowledge His provision?
First instance of tithing is found in Abraham:
Genesis 14:18-20 (NIV)
18 Then Melchizedek king of Salem brought out bread and wine. He was priest of God Most High, 19 and he blessed Abram, saying, “Blessed be Abram by God Most High,
Creator of heaven and earth. 20 And praise be to God Most High, who delivered your enemies into your hand.” Then Abram gave him a tenth of everything.
A comment on this passage we find in Hebrews 5:9-10.
9 And, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him 10 and was designated by God to be high priest in the order of Melchizedek.
The meaning of the passage is explained in Hebrews 7:1-10. This chapter is the only chapter in the epistles to teach about the tenth.
1This Melchizedek was king of Salem and priest of God Most High. He met Abraham returning from the defeat of the kings and blessed him, 2 and Abraham gave him a tenth of everything. First, the name Melchizedek means “king of righteousness”; then also, “king of Salem” means “king of peace.” 3 Without father or mother, without genealogy, without beginning of days or end of life, resembling the Son of God, he remains a priest forever. 4 Just think how great he was: Even the patriarch Abraham gave him a tenth of the plunder! 5 Now the law requires the descendants of Levi who become priests to collect a tenth from the people—that is, from their fellow Israelites—even though they also are descended from Abraham. 6 This man, however, did not trace his descent from Levi, yet he collected a tenth from Abraham and blessed him who had the promises. 7 And without doubt the lesser is blessed by the greater. 8 In the one case, the tenth is collected by people who die; but in the other case, by him who is declared to be living. 9 One might even say that Levi, who collects the tenth, paid the tenth through Abraham, 10 because when Melchizedek met Abraham, Levi was still in the body of his ancestor.
3. What is Hebrews point about Levi, who had not even been born yet?
4. Had Abraham been given the law when he tithed to Melchizadek? What does his tithe symbolize according to Hebrews 7?
5. Why, knowing our high priest, should we give regularly to our church?
Pastor Dave: The tithe provides for God's work through His church.
The principle was followed by the New Testament church. Paul mentions faithful giving by the church and pronounces the blessing of God upon it.
2 Corinthians 8:1-7
1 And now, brothers and sisters, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. 2 In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. 3 For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, 4 they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord’s people. 5 And they exceeded our expectations: They gave themselves first of all to the Lord, and then by the will of God also to us. 6 So we urged Titus, just as he had earlier made a beginning, to bring also to completion this act of grace on your part. 7 But since you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.
6. How did the giving of the church at Corinth exceed Paul’s expectations?
7. How can you personally “excel in this grace of giving”?
Pastor Dave: The tithe teaches me to put God first.
Please note that Jacob decided to give a tithe long before the Law was given.
Genesis 28:20-22
20 Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will watch over me on this journey I am taking and will give me food to eat and clothes to wear 21 so that I return safely to my father’s household, then the Lord[f] will be my God 22 and[g] this stone that I have set up as a pillar will be God’s house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth.”
8. How is tithing able to teach us to put God first? Why is it so important for us to engage in giving a portion first to God?
9. Jacob makes a vow, asking God for some things. What are those things?
Pastor Dave: The tithe increases my faith in God. It teaches me that 90% with God’s blessing, goes further than 100% without it.
In Philippi, the church was encouraged to give, and in their giving some good things happened.
Philippians 4:10-19
10 I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.14 Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles. 15 Moreover, as you Philippians know, in the early days of your acquaintance with the gospel, when I set out from Macedonia, not one church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving, except you only; 16 for even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid more than once when I was in need. 17 Not that I desire your gifts; what I desire is that more be credited to your account. 18 I have received full payment and have more than enough. I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.
10. Why is Paul rejoicing? What is the history of giving in Philippi?
11. What is the promise that Paul iterates for the giving church? How should that promise apply to Christians who are giving today?
12. Why does the Bible command us to be cheerful in giving?
2 Corinthians 9:7
7 Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver
13. How can you tell whether you are giving in a sacrificial way? How can you do a spiritual inventory today of your giving?
Pastor Dave: I will give God my first and my best, so He can bless the rest.
Blessed- Peacemakers Who Are Persecuted- Matthew 5:9-12
Blessed- Peacemakers Who Are Persecuted, Matthew 5:9-12
Icebreaker: Share an instance when you stepped in to settle a dispute like between your children. What was the outcome?
Blessed describes the state of what already exists. Blessed refers to the distinctive joy accrued to those who have salvation in the kingdom of God. It’s what you already are & what already exists. It is not a qualitative “If this; then this.” Blessed is what you are, not what you hope to be.
Read the 7th and 8th beatitudes of Jesus, Matthew 5:9-12
9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Blessed are the Peacemakers
Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
Peacemaker - The word “Peacemaker” only appears here in the entire Bible. Jesus alludes that those who are his children are known by the effort to make healthy and relational peace like their Heavenly Father. Unique to the children of God. -- Pastor Dave Flaig
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1.Why is Christ the ultimate peacemaker? (Isaiah 9:6, Ephesians 2:11-18)
Isaiah 9:6, “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
Ephesians 2:11-18, “11Therefore, remember that formerly you who are Gentiles by birth and called “uncircumcised” by those who call themselves “the circumcision” (which is done in the body by human hands)-12remember that at that time you were separate from Christ, excluded from citizenship in Israel and foreigners to the covenants of the promise, without hope and without God in the world. 13But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near by the blood of Christ. 14For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, 15by setting aside in his flesh the law with its commands and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace, 16and in one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility. 17He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. 18For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.”
2. How does the figure of speech “a wall between us” expose a relationship that needs peace?
3. What did Christ accomplish according to Galatians 3:28, Romans 5:9-11? Why is it important?
Galatians 3:28, “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”
Romans 5:9-11, 9Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him! 10For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! 11Not only is this so, but we also boast in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
4. What does “children of God” mean to the Jews and also to the gentile believers? (Hosea 1:10, Romans 8:14-17)
5. In Romans 8:14-17, as children of God, we are also co-heirs with Christ. How should having God as our Father direct our lives?
Hosea 1:10, "10Yet the Israelites will be like the sand on the seashore, which cannot be measured or counted. In the place where it was said to them, ‘You are not my people,’ they will be called ‘children of the living God.’ “
Romans 8:14-17, “14For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. 15The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. f And by him we cry, “Abba, g Father.” 16The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory."
6. What are we accomplishing by living out our identity and calling us peacemakers? (2 Corinthians 5:18-19)
2 Corinthians 5:18-19, 18All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.
7. How can believers continually live in peace with God and with one another? (Romans 12:18, 21; 2 Corinthians 5:16)
Romans 12:18, 21 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
2 Corinthians 5:16 16So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer.
Blessed are Those Who are Persecuted
Matthew 5:10-12 10"Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you."
Righteous (dikaiosuné)- The condition acceptable to God - Thayer’s Greek Lexicon
Persecute (diókó)- to harass, trouble, molest one, - Thayer’s Greek Lexicon
8. In Pastor Dave’s sermon, he said, “Peacemaking is often rejected and persecuted.” Why is peacemaking often rejected and persecuted? (Romans 8:6-8)
Romans 8:6-8 6The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. 7The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so. 8Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
9. How will the encouragements Jesus gave in verse 12 counter the negatives in verse 11?
10. What is the significance of the phrase “because of me” between verses 11 and 12? (1 Peter 2:21-25, 2 Timothy 3:12)
1 Peter 2:21-25 21To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22“He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.” 23When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 24“He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” 25For “you were like sheep going astray,” f but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls.
2 Timothy 3:12 , everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted
11. What kind of blatant or subtle persecutions do we experience today for Christ?
12. How can we take hold of Matthew 5:12 to rise above the persecutions and become a testimony to the world?
Father forgive them they do not know what they are doing - Jesus Christ
Blessed-Lord Have Mercy, I Need A Pure Heart-Matthew 5:7-8
BLESSED – LORD HAVE MERCY, I NEED A PURE HEART
Matthew 5:7 (NIV) 7 Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
Matthew 5:8 (NIV) 8 Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
"Mercy - compassion or forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one's power to punish or harm." Oxford Dictionary
Ice Breaker: Tell about a time when someone showed you mercy by not giving you the punishment you deserved? Or tell about a time you withheld punishment for the sake of mercy.
Matthew 5:7 (NIV) 7 Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
1.What do each of these passages teach us is the biblical understanding of mercy? (If you have time or on your own, see also Luke 18:35-43, Matthew 18:21-35)
a. Good Samaritan: Luke 10:30-37
b. The Prodigal Son’s Father vs. Older Brother: Luke 15:11-31
2. How is mercy more than just empathy, or sympathy?
3. How has God shown and will show us mercy? For what purposes has He shown us His mercy? (Ephesians 2:4-7, Roman 5:8, Romans 11:30-31, 1 Peter 1:3-4, 1 Peter 2:10)
Ephesians 2:4–7 (NIV) 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus.
Romans 5:8 (NIV) 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 11:30–31 (NIV) 30 Just as you who were at one time disobedient to God have now received mercy as a result of their disobedience, 31 so they too have now become disobedient in order that they too may now receive mercy as a result of God’s mercy to you.
1 Peter 1:3–4 (NIV) 3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you,
1 Peter 2:10 (NIV) 10 Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.
4. Where does a Christian’s ability to be merciful come from? (Matthew 5:7, James 3:17, Romans 12:6-8, Galatians 5:22-23)
James 3:17 (NIV) 17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.
Romans 12:6–8 (NIV) 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; 7 if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8 if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.
Galatians 5:22–23 (NIV) 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
5. Sermon Point 1: To Be Merciful Is To Respond To the Needs of Others With Compassion & Action. Are you aware of someone who is distressed or in need and what are some ways you can respond to that distress or need?
6. Sermon Point 2: Showing Mercy Is Directly Related To Forgiveness. (Share only if you are comfortable.) Who are the people in your life that have wronged you and that you would rather not forgive or show compassion (humanly speaking) and in what way can you show mercy to them (be merciful)?
Matthew 5:8 (NIV) 8Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
From Pastor Dave’s sermon: The Greek word for “heart” in Matthew 5:8 is “kardeeah” (like Cardio). This can be applied to the physical heart. But it also refers to the spiritual center of life. It is where thoughts, desires, sense of purpose, will, understanding, and character reside. So, to be pure in heart means to be blameless in who we actually are. (Sermon Point 3: THE HEART IS THE ENTIRE INTERNAL LIFE OF A PERSON, INCLUDING FEELINGS, MIND & WILL.)
7. What does it mean to be “pure in heart”? (Psalm 24:3-4, 1 Chronicles 29:17-18, Matthew 23:25-28, 2 Corinthians 7:1, 1 Peter 1:22)
Psalm 24:3–4 (NIV) 3 Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? Who may stand in his holy place? 4 The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not trust in an idol or swear by a false god.
1 Chronicles 29:17–18 (NIV)17 I know, my God, that you test the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things I have given willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly your people who are here have given to you. 18 Lord, the God of our fathers Abraham, Isaac and Israel, keep these desires and thoughts in the hearts of your people forever, and keep their hearts loyal to you.
Matthew 23:25–28 (NIV) 25 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. 26 Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean. 27 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. 28 In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.
2 Corinthians 7:1 (NIV) 1Therefore, since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
1 Peter 1:22 (NIV) 22 Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.
8. If “all have sinned and fallen short of the kingdom of God” (Rom 3:23) How can we be “pure in heart”? (Acts 15:8-9, Romans 8:1-2, Hebrews 10:22, 1 John 1:7) What should be our response when we sin? (Psalm 51:10, 1 John 1:9, also Hebrews 10:22)
Acts 15:7–9 (NIV) 8 God, who knows the heart, showed that he accepted them by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as he did to us. 9 He did not discriminate between us and them, for he purified their hearts by faith.
Romans 8:1–2 (NIV) 1Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2 because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.
Hebrews 10:22 (NIV) 22 let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water.
1 John 1:7 (NIV) 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.
Psalm 51:10 (NIV) 10 Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
1 John 1:9 (NIV) 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
9. What are the blessings of being “pure in heart”? (Matt 5:8, 2 Corinthians 4:1-2, Heb 9:14, 1 Peter 1:22)
2 Corinthians 4:1–2 (NIV) 1Therefore, since through God’s mercy we have this ministry, we do not lose heart. 2 Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to everyone’s conscience in the sight of God.
Hebrews 9:14 (NIV) 14 How much more, then, will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself unblemished to God, cleanse our consciences from acts that lead to death, so that we may serve the living God!
1 Peter 1:22 (NIV) 22 Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.
10. What does it mean that the pure in heart “will see God”? (Job 19:26-27, 1 Corinthians 13:12, 1 John 3:2-3)
Job 19:26–27 (NIV) 26 And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God; 27 I myself will see him with my own eyes—I, and not another. How my heart yearns within me!
1 Corinthians 13:12 (NIV) 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
1 John 3:2–3 (NIV) 2 Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 3 All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.
11. If “we are blessed to be a blessing to a godless world” (Sun Grove’s theme for this year), how does being merciful and “pure in heart” bless others who do not know God?
Those who receive God’s mercy, must give mercy to others.
– Pastor Dave Flaig
Blessed-Step Back Into Relationship-Matthew 5:5-6
BLESSED – STEP BACK INTO RELATIONSHIP
MATTHEW 5:5-6
Ice Breaker: Tell about a time in your life when you experienced great joy in a relationship!
Review:
Blessed describes the state of what already exists. Blessed refers to the distinctive joy accrued to those who have salvation in the kingdom of God. Blessed is what you are, not what you hope to be.”
Matthew 5:1-2 Now when Jesus saw the crowds, he went up on a mountain-side and sat down. His disciples came to him, and he began to teach them.
Introduction:
1. In Pastor Dave’s sermon, he told us that “Blessed is the current state of Christian’s life”. How would you explain our state of being Blessed to non-Christians? Do you feel blessed? What do you think we can do to feel more blessed?
2. In his “Why you need this sermon” statement, Pastor Dave said, “Sin management is not the same as a relationship with God.” How does Matt 7:21-23 relate to the concept of sin management?
Matthew 7:21-23 21"Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.22 Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ 23 Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’
Matthew 5:5-6 5Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. 6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
THE MEEK ARE THOSE WHO HUMBLY SEEK GOD. NOT TOO BOLD, NOR TOO TIMID.
3. The word for “meek” in Greek(praus) means gentle, meek, mild. (Matt 5:5; 11:29; 21:5; 1Peter 3:4) How would you describe a meek person?
4. How does our faith in God affect our meekness? (Ephesians 4:2; 2 Tim 2:25; 1Peter 3:15)
5. In the study of meekness how does Jesus shift the focus from old covenant thinking? (compare Psalm 37:9,11,29 with Matt 5:5; Rom 4:13)
Psalm 37:9 For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land.
Psalm 37:11 But the meek will inherit the land and enjoy peace and prosperity.
Psalm 37:29 The righteous will inherit the land and dwell in it forever.
Romans 4:13 It was not through the law that Abraham and his offspring received the promise that he would be heir of the world, but through the righteousness that comes by faith.
CAUSELESS ANGER IS THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF MEEKNESS.
6. How would you compare causeless anger (self righteous anger) to meekness?
7. How is causeless anger a spiritual battle?
8. What are examples of causeless anger?
GOD DEFINES JUSTICE AND GIVES IT OBJECTIVE AUTHENTICITY.
Matthew 26:6-13 6While Jesus was in Bethany in the home of Simon the Leper, 7 a woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table. 8 When the disciples saw this, they were indignant. “Why this waste?” they asked. 9 “This perfume could have been sold at a high price & the money given to the poor.” 10 Aware of this, Jesus said to them, “Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. 11 The poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me. 12 When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial. 13 Truly I tell you, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.
9. What is the difference between the way the disciples looked at the perfume being poured on Jesus and the way that Jesus saw the act?
10.How is the church today struggling with the same issues?
BEING MEEK IS IN HARMONY WITH BEING ANGRY OVER INJUSTICE INFLICTED ON OTHERS.
11. How can we show meekness in response to injustice?
THE BLESSED HUNGER AND THIRST FOR RIGHTEOUSNESS.
Matthew 5:6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
12. Where does our standard of righteousness come from?
13. What does it mean to hunger and thirst for righteousness? (Psalm 42:1-2)
14. How can we help our children grow to hunger and thirst for righteousness?
15. How can we increase our hunger and thirst for righteousness? What would that look like practically?
It all starts with Jesus. The only way to become the BLESSED of God.
Blessed- Flip Pride & Pains for Gains
Blessed- Flip Pride & Pains for Gains
Ice Breaker: Can you describe a time in your life when you experienced an abundant and unexpected happiness?
Pastor Dave defines the beatitudes: “Blessed describes the state of what already exists. Blessed refers to the distinctive joy accrued to those who have salvation in the kingdom of God. Blessed is what you are, not what you hope to be.”
Matthew 5:1-4
1 Now when Jesus saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to him, 2 and he began to teach them. He said: 3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Focusing on Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven."
1. What does it mean to be poor in spirit?
“The one who is poor and contrite in spirit, already possesses the Kingdom of Heaven.” BLESSED describes the secure assurance of who you already are in Christ. But secure in Christ doesn’t mean proud, arrogant and unashamed. - Pastor Dave Flaig
2. Are there points of pride in our lives that unexpectedly emerge? Can you describe an instance?
3. Paul warns us in Romans 12:3 to “think of ourselves with sober judgment”. How might we do a better job of this?
Romans 12:3
3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.
4. Why is self-judging important to Christians? (2 Cor. 13:5) How are we to test ourselves?
2 Corinthians 13:5
5 Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you—unless, of course, you fail the test?
5. How might we improve our humility? (Philippians 2:2-4)
Philippians 2:2-4
2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Read Matthew 14:6-23
6 On Herod’s birthday the daughter of Herodias danced for the guests and pleased Herod so much 7 that he promised with an oath to give her whatever she asked. 8 Prompted by her mother, she said, “Give me here on a platter the head of John the Baptist.” 9 The king was distressed, but because of his oaths and his dinner guests, he ordered that her request be granted 10 and had John beheaded in the prison. 11 His head was brought in on a platter and given to the girl, who carried it to her mother. 12 John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus. 13 When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Hearing of this, the crowds followed him on foot from the towns. 14 When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick.
15 As evening approached, the disciples came to him and said, “This is a remote place, and it’s already getting late. Send the crowds away, so they can go to the villages and buy themselves some food.”
16 Jesus replied, “They do not need to go away. You give them something to eat.” 17 “We have here only five loaves of bread and two fish,” they answered.
18 “Bring them here to me,” he said. 19 And he directed the people to sit down on the grass. Taking the five loaves and the two fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke the loaves. Then he gave them to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the people. 20 They all ate and were satisfied, and the disciples picked up twelve basketfuls of broken pieces that were left over. 21 The number of those who ate was about five thousand men, besides women and children. 22 Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. 23 After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone,
6. What verses in Matthew 14 might indicate Jesus mourning?
7. What happens next to prevent his withdrawal?
Focusing on Matthew 5:4 4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
8. Can you think of a time when you wanted to grieve, but life had to go on? How does God provide comfort in such times?
9. How might we provide comfort for those who are mourning?
10. How does “mourning” act like a teacher? (2 Timothy 2:10, 2 Cor. 6:10)
2 Timothy 2:10-12
10Therefore I endure everything for the sake of the elect, that they too may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory. 11 Here is a trustworthy saying: If we died with him, we will also live with him; 12 if we endure, we will also reign with him. If we disown him, he will also disown us;
2 Corinthians 6:10
10 sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.
11. How does our suffering make us more sensitive to others? (James 1:12)
James 1:12
12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
Pastor Dave also enlarged the meaning of mourning a bit to include: “We also mourn over evil in our own lives as we realize our ability to conquer is unaided. We have a Holy Spirit who helps us mourn the opportunities we passed over to love our neighbors and quickens us to love next time. Stop saying if only and replace it with next time.”
12. Can you think of a time when you mourned over something you wished you had done differently? You might begin telling us your story with an “If only”. How might you change it to a “Next time”?
13. The main message was to “Flip our pain to experience gain”. Can you think of some way God might use your pain as a testimony? Can you pray about God actually using it?
Matthew 5:3,4
3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Flip your Pride & Pains to experience gains.
Blessed to be a Blessing- Matthew 5:1-11
Blessed to be a Blessing, Matthew 5:1-11
Icebreaker: Share a situation when you did something resulting in an unexpected benefit.
The Beatitudes, Matthew 5:1-12
1 Now when Jesus saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to him, 2 and he began to teach them. He said:
3 Blessed (Makários) are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
11 Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Notes:
These teachings of Christ are referred to as the Beatitudes. The Beatitudes are derived from the Latin beatitudo/beatus, because the first word of each statement in the Latin Vulgate is beati, which translates Matthew’s Greek word makários (traditionally translated “blessed”).
Makários ("blessed") describes a believer in enviable ("fortunate") position from receiving God's provisions (favor) – which (literally) extend ("make long, large") His grace (benefits). This happens with receiving (obeying) the Lord's inbirthings of faith. (HELPS Ministries Inc)
This study is an overview of the beatitudes with focus on the meaning of “blessed.”
Discussion Questions:
1. What did Jesus refer to in teaching the beatitudes? (Matthew 4:17,23)
2. Who was Jesus addressing when he taught the beatitudes? (Matthew 4:24-5:2; 7:28-29)
3. How does Jesus’ teaching of the beatitudes apply to us today?
4. Pastor Dave said that “Blessed refers to an existing state of security, good fortune and joy, the distinctive joy accrued to those who have salvation in the kingdom of God. It’s what you already are and what already exists. Not a qualitative 'If this; then this.' Blessed is what you are, not what you hope to receive.” How does this insight inform your understanding of “blessed”?
5. How is blessed compared to joy? (Romans 15:13; Acts 13:52; Gal 5:22-23)
6. What observations can you make of the fact that the first (v.3) and eighth (v. 10-12) benefits are in present tense while the second to seventh benefits are in the future tense?
7. What is the origin of being “blessed”? (Gal 3:6-9)
Galatians 3:6–9 (ESV) 6 just as Abraham “believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness”?
7 Know then that it is those of faith who are the sons of Abraham. 8 And the Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham, saying, “In you shall all the nations be blessed.” 9 So then, those who are of faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith.
8. How can we be "blessed" and yet be in miserable circumstances? (Hebrews 12:2)
9. How can Psalm 1:1-2 help us to better understand the “blessed” life? Streams, fruit, green leaves
10. Can one miss out on being “blessed”? Why or why not?
11. The beatitudes are a package deal for those who are saved, not something to pick and choose from. What responses do the beatitudes demand of us?
12. Being blessed is important as the New Testament refers to “blessed” 49 times. How can we live out being “blessed” daily? Give practical examples.
13. Pastor Dave said, “Our theme as a church for 2021 is 'I am blessed to be a blessing to a godless world.'" What are ways, we the blessed, can be a blessing to the godless world?
14. Are you equipped to share the gospel and be a blessing to someone who does not have a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ?